Sunday provided a pair of constrasting moments to illustrate being a dad to small children, and its effects on parental mental health.
Sunday afternoon: Katy was out with J, and I thought that after I’d caught up with some boring chores that K, L and I all deserved a drink and a Little Something and then a cuddle up on the sofa to watch The Jungle Book. Eventually L dropped off to sleep (hurrah!) cuddled in one of my arms, and in the other K chatted to me about what was going on in the story, laughed, got sad when Baloo was heroic and didn’t mind when I sang along with the songs. Of course this was all good natural history and hence very Home Educational. This was very nice.
Not so nice was L really not wanting to go to sleep on Sunday evening. After more chores I thought that a bit of You’ve Got Mail would be brainless relaxation and also thought that L would eventually cuddle me or Katy and go to sleep. This did eventually happen, but two excerpts from her To Do list for the evening are reproduced below:
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117 | Empty cars from the bucket over the sofa (again). |
118 | Offer some to Daddy (again). |
119 | Accept them back from Daddy (again). |
120 | Play with them for a bit on the sofa (again). Maybe climb up onto the sofa/Daddy as part of this. |
121 | With Daddy’s help, put them back into the bucket (again). |
122 | Take the cars over to Mummy and offer one to her (again). If any cars drop out on the way, bend down to pick them up, which may cause more to drop out. Pick them all up and continue to Mummy. |
123 | After Mummy’s toy car needs are met, walk back to Daddy (again). Previous comment about dropping applies here too. |
124 | Empty cars from the bucket over the sofa (again). |
125 | Offer some to Daddy (again). |
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756 | Go to sleep. |