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1940s weekend

Sunday, August 22nd, 2010

We had intended to go to Framlingham Castle on Friday to do a bit more time travelling but in the end the children decided they fancied a day at home instead, with a visit there next week if we can manage it. Big Alice came over and they showed her how good they all are at riding bikes (L still can’t start by herself except going down a hill, and isn’t quite reliable on steering or stopping, but both boys have got it sussed to the point of practising tricks and stunts now) and did lots of playing on the field, then came in and let her sit for a bit while they played a few board games. I went out on a (sadly fruitless) quest for plastic storage drawers for the bathroom and x10 lenses, which we had been told came from the £1 shop. We don’t have a £1 shop in our nearest town, but we have a couple of similar places, so I was hoping, but the nearest I could find was a set of x5 and x3 - put them together and you get x8, which is getting there, I guess… Alice stayed for tea and we initiated her into the delights of roll-your-own sushi :mrgreen:

On Saturday our plan had been for me to take the children to the 1940s event at RAF Upware, leaving Bob behind to get lots of jobs done (like cementing in the manhole cover frame in our driveway, which has been sitting precariously ever since we decided the old one was just too rickety to be safe) but we were a bit late leaving and then we got side-tracked, having missed a turning and ended up in the rather lovely village (town?) of Ramsey. We found a lovely higgledy-piggledy charity shop, where everything seemed to be £1 or less, including a couple of bike helmets so that the children now have one each, and a discount shop which sold completely random things in odd quantities for small sums - spent £7.50 there and came out with tins and packets galore! We parked up by the Abbey gate and read the national trust plaque there (but since it wasn’t an afternoon of the first Sunday of the month we couldn’t go in), admired the Parish church, walked back through the main street admiring the 1940s shopfronts (and occasional passer-by in costume) and browsed the stalls that had been set up along the pavement, including a tombola run by a man so desperate to get rid of things that he let the children have 5 tickets each for £1, then made sure that they each won something - they were chuffed but I can’t help thinking that’s more tut to get rid of :roll: By now it was chucking it down so we sheltered under the awning of a greengrocer’s stand and chatted to him about his produce, which included apples and plums from the farm we had visited for the plum festival :) We bought some more apples (Discovery - one of my favourite varieties) and a few other bits and pieces as well, including a romanesco broccoli/cauliflower, which the children ate with great delight both raw and cooked for tea. Another thing to add to our list of veg we’d like to try growing ;)
We got home to find that Bob had had to dash out and buy cement, since what he had bought before was concrete and not really suitable… The frame was embedded though, and looking quite neat, just waiting for the cement to dry enough so that the lid could go back on :) J, K, A and I went out again still in search of plastic storage drawers, but this time to replace A’s tut drawers, which we had decided to use in the bathroom. She wanted pink, so was happy to give up the blue ones which we had actually got for M to use when he was here. The boys dashed in for bike lights, while I stayed with A in the car park to avoid having to pay for a 5 minute stop, coming back with something which was not at all what I expected and I am not convinced will work, but we’ll see. Then we looked for drawers and water butts. We were intending to move the slightly leaky one which is currently outside the kitchen door with a larger one and move the current one to the workshop, where there is a connector spilling water onto the new fence each time it rains :( Also hoping that a new tap will fix the leak and make that butt as good as new anyway. They had no large water butts left, but did have slimline ones on special offer, which can be connected together to give more storage and would fit better in the space available anyway, we thought, so we got those - after huge amounts of waiting for staff to get back to us with various bits of information. No taps, and no suitable drawers either, so we ende dup having to go elsewhere in any case, where we managed to get silver drawers, which A decided were acceptable even though not pink, and a water butt tap :) By now it was getting late so we popped into a supermarket to pick up stuff for quick tea and came out with lots of reduced tasty veg pots which salved my conscience a little on the feeding my children ready meals front :lol: Oh, and also a large chocolate mousse which is the first shop bought mousse I’ve ever found which was veggie - perhaps not healthy but oh so yummy!

Today we decided to do the RAF bit of the 1940s weekend, and Bob wanted to come too, so we all set off together. It was a very expensive day, as entry was not cheap by the time we had 5 of us to pay for (but we were hopeful it would be worth it, as the event promised much in terms of numbers of re-enactors and things going on) and then practically everything once you were in was extra - we managed to keep it down to ice-creams (it was a stinking hot day!), a ride on swing boats, a ride on a miniature steam train and a few bits and pieces for mementos, but still spent far more than we had intended! We could have spent far far more, as there were stands, stalls and things to do on every side - but 9 out of 10 of them to be paid for :( J wanted me to be made over 1940’s style, with back-combed hair and bright red lips, but I resisted. We might try it at home sometime though ;) There was an airshow going on above our heads, which looked good (and probably accounted for a fair chunk of the entry price) and lots of clearly very knowledgeable people about, but somehow it wasn’t as lively or as involving as I’d expected - perhaps I’ve been spoilt by Kentwell and their very interactive approach! Definitely worth having been to once, but I’m not sure we’ll bother again, or at least not for a few years, until all the children are old enough to get more out of it - perhaps when we get to Book 4 of Story of the World will be the right time. It may also be, of course, that I’m just not really into the militaria and the WWII stuff, so perhaps I’m not the best person to judge…

Having said all that, A spent a fair bit of time chatting to a parrot :lol: and there was one rather lovely little corner, where a bit of everyday life at home was being recreated, including two small children playing in a tin bath full of water - the best place to be on a day like today, I think :) - watched by a young woman while another woman was washing clothes by turning the handle on her machine and then running them through a mangle before hanging them out to dry. I think that kind of cameo of real life is much more to my taste and I’d happily have spent longer there. L, A and I stayed for a while watching them and looking at the toys and everyday household items, then realised that Bob still had the camera and he and the boys were across the yard from us trying on fireman’s helmets (another highlight of the day: lovely old fire engines and pumps, including a steam-powered one). L ran across to tell them we had found something they should come and see, tripped and fell, badly grazing her knee and shredding the palm of one hand :( Unfortunately the wounds were very dirty and full of small bits of gravel, and there was nowhere to get her cleaned up, so having dabbed with a wet tissue and failed to make much progress we decided to seek medical assistance and took her to the St John Ambulance, who cleaned her up very efficiently, dressed the wounds - and took lots of personal details :? - and then the airshow started and somehow we never did make it back to that lovely little area, or even to the fire engines :(

Eventually K and L were just too tired and fed up to keep going, so we made our way back to the car and came home for a revivifying water fight :lol: which ended up in a bath before tea and then an early night for the children… and I think I might follow their example…

SATS and secret agents

Thursday, August 19th, 2010

This has been a catching up kind of week so far. J tried an English SATs paper, to see how it went - reading first of all. He didn’t do as well as I’d hoped (level 4A, so fine for age) but we realised when we went through it together that it was largely because it was the first time he had done anything like that and there were several questions that he had answered but not quite in the right way. It was clear that he had understood exactly what he was reading, but he didn’t get the marks because the mark scheme requires you to answer in just the right way. A little exam technique practice wouldn’t go amiss, I think ;) He has had a similar problem with the short writing paper - he produced a rather lovely piece of descriptive writing but didn’t stick to the brief, so much of it doesn’t count :( (and we *still* need to work on consistently using capital letters!) - and the first Science paper - with a couple of marks lost because he was (correctly) answering a far harder question than they were asking! Having gone over those, I’m hoping he’ll tackle the remaining papers next week and try to put into practice the things we’ve talked about when it comes to answering questions :lol:

L, watching J do papers, wanted to try too, so we had a look at a Maths Level 2 paper from 2004. Despite occasional tears and tantrums *sigh* she got through it and scored highly enough to be worth looking at Level 3 when I can summon up the courage :lol: We might try some English papers too, I think, and maybe get K to do some too, although I’m not sure whether to jump him up, drop him down or attempt to find something aimed specifically at his age. Perhaps we’ll start with the Level 3 stuff to build up his confidence and then move up from there…

We also spent a couple of happy hours doing a Sculpey kit which worked really well - there were a number of different things to make, so each child could choose what they wanted to make. After we’d baked them they spent another couple of hours happily playing tea shops with the results :) Double the fun - thanks Merry :D

Wednesday was Latinetc, but a rather depleted one, with no Beans and no Puddlechicks. We did have the pleasure of Zoe and her girls, though, and a last session with Michelle and C for a while (although you’re always welcome to come along anyway, Michelle ;) ). No science, but we managed some French (pencil case vocab game - rather wild but fun!) and another quick whisk through Minimus chapter one for S and P’s benefit, followed by some chatting about Roman dinner parties and rich and poor households. I rather like doing half Latin and half Classics :) J and J did some GP Latin too, while the others played on the field. Some Music Theory happened, I think, and some recordering, and we all ate cake (J wanted to make one for C, including a little Eiffel Tower on the top, which he made very painstakingly, and occasionally painfully, out of cocktail sticks, only to find the craft sticks a few minutes after he had finished. Ah well.) and yummy crumble, which E assured me had been made by Gina “all by herself” :D Zoe had brought along lovely craft idea, which all the children managed to do, some with more help than others, making little felt brooches (or stuffed toys) with buttons and beads sewn on for decoration. They were all very pleased with their efforts, I think, and it worked well because the shapes could be pre-cut and then as many or as few buttons added as child (or parent) had patience to sew :) Gina’s glue came in useful too, for those who were tired of stitching ;)

Today we went to a lovely birthday party, on the theme of Secret Agents, so the children spent yesterday tea-time coming up with ideas for different kinds of agents they could be. In the end, L opted for taking an inflatable globe with her, to be a secret travel agent (sidling up to people and saying “Psst, wanna buy a holiday?) while K toyed with the idea of taking lots of pictures of houses with him to hide under a raincoat, but decided instead to dress in black and take a newspaper with eyeholes. A thought this was such a good idea she had to do it too :) The party hostess had had the happy thought of providing eyeliner pencils and a mirror so that they could draw themselves false moustaches (there was even a sheet of different moustache types to try) and that was great hit with all the children :) They also had secret phones with code words to work out in order to get their cake. The weather was kind to us, so lots of playing in the garden ensued (and the hosts do have a wonderful garden for playing in!) while A got to do lots of bouncing on the trampoline because it had been reserved for the three littlest guests - a lovely idea, thank you Emily :)

Dashing through the holidays!

Sunday, August 15th, 2010

Time seems to be rushing past again, with the weeks galloping by…

The “holidays” began with a First Aid course for K and L on 23rd July, while A and I popped over to visit friends in the same town. J decided to stay at home, which was fine since Bob was working from home that day anyway. The course was done by Guardian and the woman teaching was excellent; both K and L came out having had a fantastic time and feeling confident that they would be able to deal sensibly with a minor emergency and to get help for a major one. We came home and packed for K’s Cub camp, then Bob took him there (he and J had been there the evening before, helping to put up tents ready for the camp) after tea. The rest of us went to the sports and arts festival day, as already blogged.

A week of Oliver! workshops for J, K and L followed, 9 - 1 each day, culminating in a performance on the Friday. Apparently it was great fun - they certainly did well to produce a very watchable mini-show (condensed to just under 30 minutes) by the end of the week, and they all worked very hard learning words, choreography and songs, some of which (mostly dances) were cut from the performance because there was an awful lot for such young children to learn (they ranged from 3 to 10, with J being the second oldest child there, I think) - it was originally planned to be 40 minutes long. All of the children (including A, who was quite put out at not doing the workshops) now want to join the drama school run by the same woman who did the workshops (although it would actually be different teachers on the day we could make) but that means we will need to look at the time and money budgets and see what goes and whether they really want it that badly… I feel we are a little overstretched as it is! For now, we have promised that they can definitely do another holiday workshop ;)

Unfortunately only A and I were able to get to the performance, which both Bob and the children were rather sad about, so we decided it was a good time to buy the digital camcorder we have been humming and hah-ing over for a while - only a little Flip, but it did the job (and was on special offer in Tesco’s, handily enough).

Thursday 29th July found us hosting a church coffee evening, which meant much tidying and not a little baking in the days leading up to it, as well as work on Oliver! It went well, I think - and £88 was raised, so worth the effort :)
Also that week we spent much of an afternoon looking at pictures by Kandinsky and then first having a go at making our own concentric circles and then choosing a favourite image or style to imitate (thanks to Merry and Zoe for the idea). K and L in particular were very taken by the apparently abstract pictures which on closer inspection were full of odd things, or impressions of odd things…

Then, of course, on Saturday it was the wonderful Beans party :D The boys went to Astronomy Club in the morning, while the girls and I did lots of cooking and a bit of costume finding to suit an Africa/safari/animals theme - it all became more and more vague as the children looked at random assorted ideas! In the end K dressed in green and went as a frog, L wore her silk wings and became a butterfly, A wrapped herself in a blue silk scarf and wore a matching elephant hat and J opted for his beloved Oliver! tee shirt. Having found the galabiyas Bob and I brought back from honeymoon in Egypt I was persuaded to wear one of those and only then remembered that Michelle was relying on me to act as translator and general persuader to C’s French family… Michelle was waiting for me as I walked in :lol: but needn’t have worried; they were lovely :D The weather was cooperative, the company delightful, the children splashed and frolicked in paddling pools and round the garden and we all had a lovely time - so much so that we decided to ask if we could go back again the next day, bearing cinnamon rolls and cheese stars to ensure a good reception ;)

There followed a week of swimming lessons for J, to help him catch up a little from having done next to no swimming whilst away. At his request we went for a pool a fair distance away, but small and friendly, and known to him through having done lessons there before. Since it was handy for Gina and co and J happened to be signed up to the same classes as E we managed to combine forces a couple of times, fitting in some piano, music theory, French, Latin and even science between us all over the course of a few days, as well as helping out with lifts while Gina’s car was being MOT’d. The week whizzed past, with all the things I had planned for afternoons being set aside in favour of bike riding in the field. J and K are now both quite happy on bikes, with L not far behind; she was cross at being left out so J sorted out a bike for her, pumping up tyres, checking for punctures, lowering the saddle and so on, then taught her to ride it!

On Sunday I was preaching, so Friday and Saturday were full of preparation for that. The boys both wanted to be involved in the service, so we practised readings together, but in the end they both decided that Sunday school, which they had been uncertain about in a strange church, looked too good to miss, so Bob and I reverted to Plan A and shared the readings out between us ;)
By Monday we needed a little r and r, so that was earmarked as a bit of a catch-up day, but then a friend emailed and asked if I was able to sign passport applications, which I am, and if we were around to do it urgently, which we were, so it turned into a having friends round to play day…

Tuesday started with piano etc and went on to include singing folk songs at an old people’s home in the afternoon, which began with a little panic as the organiser was nowhere to be found and that left two adults with a vague idea of what we were supposed to be singing, based on a list of words and some hastily googled tunes, plus 5 children aged 10, 8, 6, 5 and 3 and one tiny baby, none of whom knew any of the songs securely. We had all been intending to rely on the organiser to lead the singing… What made the whole thing rather surreal was that the staff were certain she had signed in a few minutes before we had all got there, and so must be somewhere in the building, but they couldn’t find her anywhere. It was only when somebody asked if she might be sitting in her car for some reason and I said that she hadn’t got a car that we started to wonder - apparently the woman who had signed in had also put a car reg. Then we checked spelling and realised it wasn’t her at all, which at least solved the question of “How on earth have we managed to misplace an entire family in an old people’s home?” but still left us with the problem of “How on earth are we going to sing all these songs we don’t really know with no music and nobody to lead us?”!

We quickly went through the list of songs and poems and decided which ones we would have to omit (actually only about 3) and which we could struggle through, while the children agreed to read some of the poems, then the staff led us through to the lounge where lots of elderly residents were waiting to be entertained and more were being brought, very slowly, to join them. All of a sudden there was a bit of a commotion and the organising lady arrived - phew! - having decided to just pop home and change herself and her daughters because they had been soaked by the morning’s downpour. It didn’t seem to have occurred to her that arriving nearly 30 minutes late might have made us start to worry, but in fact we were so relieved to see her that we didn’t say a word other than “Thank goodness you’re here!” :lol: In the end it was actually a very worthwhile afternoon, and one which I found quite enjoyable, although I fear the children had used up most of their patience in the 30 minute wait for organising lady to arrive and then the extra 15 minutes or so that it took for all the residents to be ready for us to start after that. They made a good stab of reading their poems, but gave up on the songs apart from the ones they already knew or the ones with lots of repeats of the chorus. I have to admit, there were an awful lot of words there! I think we’ll try to sign up for Christmas carols as well though :)

Wednesday was Latinetc, which was to have been a normal morning session and than an arty afternoon session, planning for a nature walk and then some sketching. Unfortunately Zoe wasn’t able to come :( and the art was a little less focused than we had intended, but I think each child still had a go at something, including using Merry’s rather lovely gel pens. The chemistry session Helen did, trying to work out what the mystery substance was (found in the fire pit after use), went very well as far as I could see, and there was also music theory for middle/older ones, French for younger/middle ones (playing a game which should have used a tape but in the end just had to use me, as the tape player refused to work; it was probably better that way really, though), cello trios, rounders, lots of playing, blackberry picking and crumble making for very little ones and a quick dash through Minimus chapter one for all those on the Latin list, followed by looking at how Roman towns were designed (all on the same pattern) and then designing our own. It was lovely to be able to fit so much in, largely thanks to having the afternoon to spill over into - thanks all :)

Gina’s J stayed over afterwards, which all the children were very happy about, but especially my J, and we gave him back to Gina the following day when we met at the Norris Museum for a garden art event. Having worried about the weather it actually cleared up just when we needed it to, but in fact we spent far more time indoors making 3D items for the collage they were preparing for the St Ives centenary (900 years!) and ended up with Gina and S outside, collecting children as they finished, while I stayed inside with artists until they were done. Luckily I had remembered the camera, so was able to take pictures of finished works as they went onto the collage (which is apparently to be displayed in the Free Church) - Gina’s J in particular spent a lot of time and effort making a rather lovely shop, while J made a swan (with help from Gina and S collecting feathers), K a boat, A a goldfish and L and E a collaborative sparkly fish for the collage and boat for S :)

We didn’t actually see much of the museum itself, although it looked interesting enough to merit another trip, I think. It’s very small and a bit higgledy-piggledy, plus you never quite know what you will see, since they have enough collections for a display four times the size (it’s rather a pocket-sized museum :) ) so they alternate what goes out. One thing which caught our eyes though was a display of Roman remains from our town, including a skull from a burial site not far from our house and a stone from the old Roman wall which we didn’t even know had been there, but when we stopped to think about it with our Roman Town Planner hats on must have been, because all Roman towns had a wall round them! There was even a plan of the town as it was in Roman times and another showing how it is now, overlaid with the main features of the Roman town - fascinating stuff, especially as it built so serendipitously on what we had just been studying :D We were able to trace all the key features we had read about and see where they fitted in, and even to see how they might fit with the shape of the town now. When we first moved here I remember seeing posters for history tours we had just missed; I hope they repeat them some time soon…

Outside they were bug hunting, which J really enjoyed, especially once he found he had a talent for creeping up on creepy crawlies and catching them in his flask :) A and S made little bugs and K, L and E made dragonflies from pipe cleaners with oht wings - very simple but very effective. By now S was pretty much out of patience, so we let the real bugs go, took the model ones with us and went to find some lunch, somewhat overwhelming a little church cafe with requests for toast when they didn’t have enough sandwiches for all of us. A good cup of tea made up for a lot though, and then Gina and co had to go and the children and I hit the charity shops. Our mission was to find respectable jeans for Bob, so he doesn’t have to wear his old holey ones to work any more, which we did, but we also found a few tapes for the car (including a Joyce Grenfell “George, don’t do that” :D ) and a Cluedo game which J and K were instantly entranced by and have now taught L to play as well :) The afternoon ended with a cello lesson for K, to keep him going a bit over the long holidays.

On Friday we met up with J’s godparents and their family at Audley End, in some of the most horrendous weather so far this summer! We arrived in rain torrential enough to keep us all in the car for a bit before venturing out, and the day continued with alternating bright sunshine and thunderous showers. Undeterred we went to the stables and saw old fire engines, then met a couple of very nice retired horses, listened to some stories and tried on some hats. A trip to the toilets turned into an extended stay at the play area, with handy tables and umbrellas nearby meaning it was a good place to eat lunch as well, while the children ran off to play whenever the sun appeared and back under the umbrellas as soon as it rained. J was waiting for the Time Travellers event advertised for 1 o’clock - the execution of Charles 1 - but when he and I dashed over to see if it was on (earlier events having been rained off) we arrived to find them making the most of a few minutes of sunshine to do a musket drill. By the time we got back with the news we were soaked almost to the skin by another downpour - thank goodness for raincoats and trees with a high leaf index!

The house beckoned, we thought, and all made our way over there, but on the way the children and I decided to check out the Time Travellers one last time, and the promise of an assault course was just too tempting to pass up, so we went and got passports, picked up a Roundheads and Cavaliers treasure trail and decided to brave the showers and stay outside, while Paul, Carol and co went inside.

The assault course was as good as it had promised to be, involving teamwork and timing to carry a cauldron containing a “bomb” round the field, under and over various obstacles (with 2 team members carrying the cauldron and the rest wooden “muskets”; all to pass under/over each obstacle), plant the bomb outside a castle door and then race back again via the same obstacles - as it happened ours were joined by a blind girl, so their task demanded even more teamwork than usual, but they did well :) While they rested from their efforts one of the travellers showed them his musket and talked them through how it was put together, what each part did and how it worked, as well as what could go wrong. He was very good, letting the blind girl feel what he was talking about as he said it and then passing each part round so that the others could also feel it and see it close up. They were joined by quite a crowd in the course of his talk, including a slightly obnoxious young boy who kept coming up with silly suggestions and then insisting at great length that he was right. Again the chap dealt with it very well, eventually saying “That’s a good idea - why don’t you put it down in a letter and send it to me?” and then each time after that cutting him off with “Great! Put that in the letter as well!” so that he could get on with what he wanted to say. Looking at the musket led quite naturally to musket drill, with the blind girl next to L so that she could hold onto her shoulder and feel where to go. I was rather proud of K, who spotted that there would not be enough wooden muskets to get all the way to the end of the row (where the blind girl was) and so volunteered to use a stick instead, so that she could have a proper one :) They practised holding the musket and the match in different hands (a useful skill!) and then stepping forward to fire, and then finished with firing in a battery, with two rows so that the back row could be loading while the front row were firing and vice versa. By now it was chucking it down again, so the Time Travellers hid back in their tent and we took our completed treasure trail back to the desk to claim a prize - a packet of sweets for each child - I’d so much rather they’d had a pencil, but there!

We met up with Paul and Carol again and had a wander round the amazing kitchens while the weather outside did its worst. As it eased up a bit the children went outside to splash in puddles and dance with umbrellas and then, as soon as it was clear enough to walk through, we made our way back to the car park - of course by the time we got there it was brilliant sunshine again! - said goodbye to Carol, Paul, T and grandparents and made our way home just in time to avoid the worst of the traffic.

And so we come to this weekend, and the Plum Festival :) Yesterday we dropped Bob off at an orchard for a talk on growing top fruit without artificial chemicals and went on to talk to some beekeepers. The children all got to try some locally produced honey (so delicious we bought some) and we found out how to make polish from turps and beeswax (we bought some of that too), then J, K and L tried on some beekeeping equipment from different ages: a modern coat with hood and veil, an older hat with veil and a linen robe with woven basket face piece, a style which they think was first used thousands of years ago. We saw how a hive is put together and found out that there is a meeting at a park near us every Sunday which we could go to if we want to see the hives being opened up and inspected, and if we ask there is a good chance that the children could have a go at handling the bees themselves. Since J has been keen for ages to keep bees this might be a good opportunity for him to look into how feasible that really is :)

In the next room we were able to admire some pictures by local artists and to try some different varieties of plums and apples, as well as some apricot yum yum - sort of set fruit jelly. Then we wandered into the graveyard at the back of the church to find out where the boys’ workshop was to be in the afternoon, found a nice bench and had our lunch. Bob arrived in time to take over the children so that I could dash to the orchard for a walk and talk on bees, which was fascinating (must make notes while it’s fresh in my mind, but not now, I fear) while the boys did an Opal workshop on lichen and moss and Bob and the girls explored a little more, including trying some delicious icecream. We bought lots of fruit (plums and apples) then came home for a quick tea and early night for the children and some plum and rosewater compote making for me.

Today the plum festival continued, although we set off later than planned because the boys felt the urge to go out and look for samples of mosses and lichen to examine first. We still managed to fit in a trip to a plum specialist to find out about the plums in the field behind our house (cherry plums, edible but not necessarily very exciting, probably there before the field was turned into a playing field, as they used to be planted as a screening hedge round orchards), a quick peek in passing at the self-sufficiency lady with her ducks and chickens (she was too busy to be worth waiting for, we decided), a play in a rather nice old-fashioned playground, ice cream for the boys (who missed out yesterday), trying and then buying some freshly pressed apple juice and chatting to a lady about her farm and the various farmers’ markets in the area. Then we moved on to screenprinting some bags, which was excellent fun, starting with designing an inner section to fit inside an already made-up outer section, then putting the design together, adding the ink (with help from the artist in charge of the activity) and pressing it through the screen to make the print. It was so cool that I had to do one too!

We left the bags to dry while we went on to our last stop of the day, an orchard where they were offering sensory tours for the children. We began with a biodiversity game, each being given a card with a plant, insect or animal on it, then using wool to make links between us. Then we walked on and looked at the textures of the trees, bark, trunks, branches, leaves etc and did some rubbings to see how they varied. We sat and listened for a few minutes and drew a sound map of what we could hear and where it was in relation to us. Then we did some tasting of different types of plums, culminating in a blindfolded tasting to see if we could identify which ones they were of the ones we had tried. By the end we knew which ones we wanted to buy ;)

The orchard tour ended just in time for story telling (it had to, as it was the same person doing both!) and we sat on blankets and listened to some stories we already knew (Each, peach, pear, plum, for example) and a few we didn’t (including the Frangipani Fairies, which I need to look out for, I think) while Bob nipped back to collect the bags, which were by now just about dry. (We still need to iron them to set the colours.) The children still wanted to do some picking, so we collected a punnet and set off round the orchard in search of apples ripe enough to be worth picking (to please L, who doesn’t like plums) and all the kinds of plums we had most liked on the tour. Despite worrying about how full our punnet was it didn’t come to much really :) I will have some work to do tomorrow to preserve all the ones we won’t manage to eat fresh though!

Gotta start somewhere…

Sunday, July 25th, 2010

and maybe backfill later ;)

K was on Cub camp from Fri evening to Sun afternoon.
There was a sports and arts festival day today at a localish country park (fairly local to our old church, so we went there first) - we started with a junk percussion making workshop to make shakers for use in the Samba workshop and procession later. After that J and L did an inflatable assault course while A bounced on a rather smaller castle, then L and A queued for trampolines while J played tennis and Bob went off to collect K. There were four trampolines and the family in front of us had two girls waiting to go on, as did I, so we were counting carefully to see how many turns we had to wait and whether both would get on at the same time. It soon became clear that all four girls would be in the same turn… until that turn came and the irritating child behind, whose parents had been encouraging him to go and do something else, let them wait in his place, hurry up etc etc, pushed forward making the four a five. I sent L to the end trampoline and helped A onto the nearest one, making loudish comments about how lucky we were that they would both be on at the same time, there were four of us and so forth, but clearly I was too subtle, because when I looked round L was by my side in tears :( Irritating boy had pushed past her and taken her place. I looked round for his parents and there they were, having walked round the trampolines to the one he was on, helping him do up the netting. The man in charge was clearly not bothered and there didn’t seem much point in making a big fuss, so I consoled myself with the thought that presumably they were that desperate to get him on in a hurry because it was something he really wanted to do and then they had to go and consoled L with the promise that I would not let anyone else but L get on A’s trampoline when she got off. Then watched grumpily as irritating boy spent almost the whole time posing for his irritating parents to take pictures of him sprawling in an irritating way on the trampoline, with only a few jumps in the whole session :rant: Still, the girls enjoyed it anyway, eventually, and it gave J time to come back from tennis and find us, so we were able to go on together to the next thing - face-painting queue for the girls and the youth club bus for J, then actual face painting for the girls and a samba horn-making session for J, who unfortunately waited very patiently only to get to the front of the queue (it involved using sharp objects and filing edges so was mostly being done for them) just as the man doing it was asked to pack away and get onto his stilts. We memorised the instructions so we can have a go at home ;)
Samba workshop then, with an excellent band, including a boy J recognised as One of the Big Ones from music school, who had been doing their own workshop beforehand, plus us with lots of shakers and a few vuvuzela style horns. We were joined by some dancers and stiltwalkers and also a very cool robot/puppet which took 5 or 6 operators to control it, but danced with the main operator as it was strapped to his stomach, so when he shook his hips it did too :) We processed round the park, and Bob and K were easily able to find us so K could join in too. Oh, and who should we see at the end of the procession but, yep, irritating boy - not in a hurry at all then :evil:
A was disappointed not to have more time with the sports stuff, but the others were ready for home by then (A had cheated by being in a carrier!) so we headed back for tea and unpacking of Cubs stuff, plus delivery of forgotten Cub camp stuff :roll: by kind leader…

Tomorrow is the first day of Oliver workshops - 9 o’clock start but I’ve no idea what traffic will be like so we’ll need to leave here early - better get to bed, I think!

Kentwell

Sunday, July 18th, 2010

It’s been ages since we got back, and even more ages since either of us wrote anything. Oh well.

This year I tried my hand at archery - I’d finally given in and bought myself a longbow at a historical fair, but hadn’t had chance to practice before going. I like longbows. Mine is ash, 35lb pull (which is rather weedy, but could still reach all the targets). Some of the other archers do loads of archery, and some of them have loads of money. So there was a proper 130lb war bow that I couldn’t draw, and lots of 70lb ones which were still rather powerful. I got to get quite a bit less bad at it, and particularly enjoyed clout shooting (shooting at a cloth on a stick at the far end of a field, aiming up into the sky to get more range - nearest the stick wins). Also I learned about archery, and how we defeated the French at Poitiers, Crecy and Agincourt against the odds.

The way that people were using a simple but powerful tool made of wood, how different people had different preferences and so on, made me think a bit about the bit in the first Harry Potter book where he goes to Ollivander’s to get a wand. Another thing that struck me this year, I think partly because of some of the other archers also made bows and chairs etc. was that at Kentwell there are people who can actually make things, real things, rather than words in the Web 2.0 user-generated content meaning of make. One bloke, who makes bowls with his lovely pole-lathe started as a geneticist, then changed to selling industrial amounts of liquid nitrogen and oxygen, and now makes pipes for a living (musical ones, but not bagpipes).

He had a second lathe with him this year, where the pole was a proper bit of timber rather than a chopped bit of tree. He was saying how it was all put together at the last minute, using bits of wood he had lying around the workshop - holly, box, ash etc. This impressed me: not only did he have the various kinds of wood lying around, but he could identify them. Then there
were the basket makers - one lady was making a new basket for her dog. I need a basket for my dog, so I’ll make one. Marvellous. They use wickedly sharp knives to cut the willow.

Anyway, as well as all that there were the usual out of hours things - ceilidhs, a boat race along the moat, green man (celebration of midsummer) eating tea out on the front lawn (A got scared of the peacocks, who can be a pest as they scavenge people’s leftovers, which sometimes haven’t been left yet).

K and L had to zoom back as they were singing in a concert. Fortunately we were just back in time to see the interesting part of the boat race. The concert was for all the music groups associated with the school where they do their Saturday morning music thing. The youngest performer was in their group (a 4 year old girl, who did very well), and the oldest was a six former in one of the school groups. K+L were excellent, enjoyed themselves, and also enjoyed the other groups.

Also, K and L got to be gentry for the day, with minimal effort from us. Normally gentry is a hassle, as the costumes are elaborate and fancy, and you need posh accessories too. The outdoors gentry (visiting gentry from elsewhere) a.k.a. gentry in a pavilion a.k.a. tentry, had some costumes spare that happened to fit K and L. K liked it, and L looked forward to it so much she occasionally literally jumped for joy. After all, it’s not every day you get to be a princess. (See Flickr for the many layers of getting ready.)

Katy’s dad was doing his first Kentwell for quite a few years. In recent years there had been a problem of young lads wandering around in feral gangs. There was a school room in the house, but that was fairly posh and small. So the big cheese PP asked David if he could start a second, less posh, school in one of the barns in order to keep these lads out of mischief. He was given a free hand and more help than most stations get as PP realised it was likely to be an unpopular thing.

David did his usual excellent job of preparation, and it turned out to be somewhere that the boys wanted to be. One of the archers had a son who was supposed to be there but wasn’t, and so was almost dragged there by his dad. Later on I asked the boy how it went and he said it was good. They made a sundial by working out when noon was by shadows and then using an hour glass to do the other hours away from that. They used slates and slate pencils, and did their proper work on one side and used the other to give a score to visiting school parties a la X Factor.

They had clay letters and roman numerals made by a Kentwell potter, and they were taught the pre-1588 way of doing roman numerals: XIV is the same as XVI as the position doesn’t matter - you just add up the individual letters to make 16. So 9 is VIIII. Actually, a run of 2 or more Is has a tail on the last I which makes it look like VIIIJ. Doing division by multiple subtraction is a lot easier if the position doesn’t matter. Oh, and chess played to Tudor rules (no castling, no en passant, and pawns never move 2 spaces). And there was delicious cake, made by David’s partner. Katy took some lovely photos of David and the school, again on Flickr.

Blue Peter Badges!

Monday, May 24th, 2010

Some time ago K and L decided that they would like to get Blue Peter badges (mostly because their friend C had got one) so we thought about what they could do and they sat down to write a letter each. We sent them off, K’s by post (with an accompanying picture, done in pastels) and L’s by email, with accompanying photos. Since we were sending things off for them I decided to type up and email one of J’s poems too, just to see if we could get all three of them a badge.
This was all long enough ago that we were starting to think of what else we could submit, since it seemed what we had sent was not going to get them a badge. Then today we realised that there were three little parcels sitting in the hall, obviously tucked safely to one side by Bob on Saturday when all the rest of us were out and then forgotten in the busy-ness of the weekend. L and K opened theirs to find a letter each plus a green badge for K (to show he’s interested in the environment) and a standard blue badge for L, along with a suggestion that she should look out for a programme on the Tudors coming soon :) Since J’s parcel looks just the same, presumably his poem has also earned him a badge. K wants to tell the whole world, he is so excited, and we plan to spend the afternoon looking at all the places they can now get into for free - once their cards arrive to go with the badges, at least ;)

K’s letter:
I like to do gardening because it means that I get to use Daddy’s spade, which is fun. In my picture you can see some of the things we have planted this week. The grey pots have corn on the cob, which is very nice to eat but sometimes gets stuck in the gaps between my teeth. The red pot has tomato plants in it. I don’t like tomatoes, but they’re very nice in pasta sauce and my mum and dad like them. The black pot has carrots growing in it. I like carrots. According to a myth from World War Two carrots help you to see in the dark. Part of that is true – they do help your eyes because they have Vitamin A – but they don’t really help you see in the dark. The army just wanted the Germans to be tricked.
We’ve also planted some peas. We’re going to make a cardboard maze for them, because they like to grow towards the light. If you put a box over the pea plant with a hole to one side it will grow towards the hole where the light is shining through. Then you can put another layer with another hole the other side so the pea grows that way. We should get zig-zag pea plants! They have to have light and water and warmth. We tried growing some in dry soil and they didn’t grow. The ones we put in the dark grew but had yellow shoots instead of green. The best ones had damp soil and were kept in a warm light place.

L’s letter:
Every summer we go to a place called Kentwell Hall. We dress up and pretend to be Tudors. I live in the Cott (or cottage) with my Mummy and my little sister and we make pottage for people who are nearby. Pottage is made of lots of yummy vegetables which we call roots and worts. My little sister calls them “voots and vorts” and says they are “nummy!” My brothers go to the schoolroom, but this year my biggest brother won’t be there because he’s in France. They learn all sorts of things in the schoolroom, like heraldry (learning about shields) and how to write and spell like Tudors. One of my friends works in the Still Room, which is like a doctor’s. She makes medicine. I once had a splinter and had to go but she wasn’t there then.
I think it would be really cool if Blue Peter came with us to Kentwell this year, then you could make a tv programme there and everybody could see how good it is. You could try some pottage too!

As my dad would say, it’s all cookery…

Monday, March 29th, 2010

As part of the Science festival, I took K, L and A to the Chemistry department. There was an unexpected bit of learning on the walk from the nearest free car park to the department - the very nice playground we went through had a Moebius strip climbing frame. I’m not surpised, given where it was, but it did make me smile and K and L had fun clambering over it.

I have memories of the Chemistry department from when I was a student - 3 9 o’clock Maths lectures there a week in my first year (because it had a large lecture theatre). When you got to the building, getting in was tricky because all the fume cupboards inside were sucking air out of the building and pumping it out of chimneys, which meant that the entrance doors were being sucked shut. My lecturer was Dr. De’Ath (convenient apostrophe), who was an astronomer, and the only thing I actually remember of his lectures was vector area. He held up an inflatable zebra and asked “What’s the vector area of this?” The answer was 0, as it is a closed surface.

Anyway, back to the present. The doors weren’t being sucked shut as the fume cupboards were off. There was a huge scrum in the entrance hall as lots of people were just about to go into a lecture. A quick hello to a local HE family who were about to go in, then we headed off randomly upstairs. The first room we came to had some nice crystal stuff - examples about the size of a rubic’s cube, and some kits for growing salt crystals with some here’s-some-I-prepared-earlier showing how they would work.

The best bit in that room was the liquid nitrogen. As well as the put something in, freeze it, take it out and smash it with a hammer trick (which was done with bananas, apples and an egg) there were two things I’d not seen before with liquid nitrogen. The first was making a chunky nail out of blu tac and then being able to hammer it into a plank of wood. The second was a foam trough that was having a blown up balloon pushed into it. The demonstrator asked us how many balloons we thought were in the trough. She then got some tongs and kept on pulling out more and more balloons. Most of them had gone down to as small as when they weren’t inflated, because all the air inside had shrunk down in the cold. The trough was about the size of 4 adult shoe boxes in 2 rows of 2, and there were 31 balloons in it. She put them on the bench where they warmed up and got back to normal size - the bench was covered with balloons, and it was a very impressive demonstration.

Next was a bit of Chemistry lego i.e. playing with Molymod. K and L made carbon dioxide. There were diagrams of common interesting molecules, and K asked me to make ibuprofen which while not being e.g. DNA is about 10 times as complex as CO2. The students demonstrating had helpfully made some building blocks (though none I could use) and K put the hydrogens on a ring to make benzene. The student said a bit about it (gives you cancer, good at dissolving things) and K said “The man had a dream about snakes eating each other and worked out its structure” - student was impressed and I had a PDM. They do remember some things I tell them :) .

Next door was another student with different bowls to smell. Which was the odd one out? Caraway, dill, rose petals, orange and spearmint. I can’t remember which one it was (but I think they both got it) nor can I remember which chemical was involved, but it was about chirality - four of them had one version of the smelly chemical and the other had its mirror image. That was interesting timing, as that week scientists had worked out the chemistry involved in Thalidomide harming the body. I mentioned that to the student, and he said that even if you could produce a pure sample of the good Thalidomide, your body would turn some of it into the bad Thalidomide anyway. Hmmm…

We then went to a bit where the children could do experiments. There was a lab given over to getting ready - racks of lab coats, boxes of disposable gloves, and boxes of safety specs. I had A on my back and surprisngly they had no baby-wearing lab coats, so we settled for My First Safety Specs for A and caution for me. K and L had the full works - see Flickr.

The experiments were making snot / goo (borax, PVA and colouring), cornflour and water and an excellent demonstration of density. There were beakers with sugar solutions of different strengths, ranging from just water to a saturated solution. The different strengths were coloured differently, and by carefully slurping some up in a pipette and putting it out into a test tube (in the right order) you could make a rainbow.

We were starting to flag a bit, so we headed up to the top floor where there was more liquid nitrogen, but this time to make ice cream :) . K and L were a bit too young to do it themselves, so they watched as a kind student made some for them and then gave us all some. Very nice it was too - very small ice crystals so not hard and crunchy, proper ingredients including cocoa and cream.

As we were going round we’d been doing a trail where you had to find posters about mystery elements. This certainly tested my rusty A level chemistry, but we got through it and collected the prizes just before chucking out time.

As for the title - my dad’s a physicist and was therefore indoctrinated with the view that chemists are just cooks in lab coats.

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March notes

Friday, March 12th, 2010

Mon 1st March - packing, L gym, making the most of J…

Tues 2nd March - Gina and co popped over to help celebrate L’s b’day, then we dropped Bob and J off at the station (left K, L, A here with BA), came back for lunch and went to violin - A’s second “lesson” and just as much enthusiasm :)

Wed 3rd - rather subdued morning. Cello, baby music, K Cubs.

Thurs 4th - Tots sorting (last week in old venue for a while), Philosophy club (4 Cs - K and L did well :) )

Fri 5th - to Susan and K (Wii, garden, cookies, garlic!)

Sat 6th - Kentwell Open Day

Sun 7th - first phone call to J. All well. Hard not to chat for ages :( Church - moving on service, lunch, transferring toys

Mon 8th - L gym

Tues 9th - violin cancelled, but cello moved forward a day, K gym

Wed 10th - Latinetc science (looked at peas planted in different conditions, talked about making a pea plant maze. Put bacteria into petri dishes to grow, then added antibiotics to inhibit growth/kill) music, Latin, French… then K and SB grade 1 recorder, S, E, L, A with me to Baby Music. Cubs.

Thurs 11th - Tots in new venue (lots to think about!) but no multisport :( Impromptu Tots planning meeting.

Fri 12th - normals, Australia jigsaw, science - raisins in lemonade, moving a candle on a plate or under a glass to see what happens to flame, lemonade and Mentos (doesn’t work as well as Diet Coke), relative gravity on different planets (lots of counting of popping corn grains into cups, then we popped it afterwards ;) ). Professor Layton/Mathletics/Poisson rouge.

Sprinting through February

Saturday, March 6th, 2010

Monday 1st was younger HE sports, which K and L very much enjoyed, and which meant a double dose of activity for L as she had gymnastics in the afternoon as well. Bob was ill and at home, so J and M were able to stay at home and do quiet work. In the evening K had Beavers - one of his last sessions before moving up to Cubs.
Tues 2nd was violin for L, J and M, then gym for the boys in the afternoon.
Wed 3rd was quieter than usual, with no Latinetc and no cello, but there was Baby Music, during which Bob and the boys made gas mask boxes for Fri, and then K had his second Cubs taster session, which also happened to be our turn on the parent helper rota, so I stayed with the boys and helped them turn batteries into bugs with glowing noses :) Other experiments included static electricity and tissue paper snakes and rubbing a neon tube with plastic bags to make it glow… or shatter - only M could do that!
Thurs 4th - Tots and Nots and Philosophy Club. K went to play with the other K, coming back with delicious choc chip cookies :D

Fri 5th - WWII Evacuation day with the Nene Valley railway. Dressed (more or less) appropriately and carrying lunch and a few belongings with us, labels on coats and background reading done, we were evacuated to Stibbington. It was very well done, I thought, with enough authentic touches to make it feel real if you wanted to make it so but also enough reassurances to keep everyone happy. We walked through the village, with billets pointed out as we went (each child had chosen an identity from a list of actual children evacuated to Stibbington, so they were able to see where they would actually have been staying), marched smartly past the grumpy colonel’s house and eventually got to the school, where the billeting officer/schoolteacher gave the children identity cards to fill in and a quiz to do based on posters and slogans - all about Doctor Carrot keeping children healthy, careless talk costing lives and so on. Then there was time to look at the Anderson shelter and play with some appropriate toys in the playground before lunch and a chance to spend their pocket money (£1 changed into two old pennies) on souvenirs from the shop before going into the schoolroom to write a postcard home (or draw - she was very good at differentiating and providing age appropriate work, especially given that she said this was the first time she had ever had a mixed age group), learn spellings (reciting and writing), do copy work (with a dip pen and ink) and maths and then drill in the playground. Somewhere in there we sang It’s a long way to Tiperrary and listened to an address from Princess Elizabeth on the radio. Oh and there was an air raid, which meant a loud siren telling us to go to the shelter (indoors - the Anderson shelter in the playground wouldn’t have been big enough!) where they did more maths, sang derogatory songs about Hitler and generally kept a stiff upper lip and carried on regardless ;) except A, who screamed and had to be taken out to look at the pictures in the corridor, even if it did mean we might get bombed! All in all, it was a really good day, and brought everything to life very effectively for the children - and adults too, I think!
We followed it up rather nicely with a trip to see Bob’s parents, after Music school on Sat. Bob’s mum was old enough to remember bits of the war and they both remember rationing, which went on for long enough afterwards to have become a major part of their childhood. Gran-gran and K, with a little help from L, made a couple of things from the recipe book we had borrowed form the library, while Grandad, J and M put together a flying thing from a science kit he’d been saving to do with grandchildren :)
My plans for a tidying and sorting weekend having been thoroughly overthrown, we came back on Monday via a HE gathering. Paper weaving happened and possibly a little chess, building with Lego and stickle bricks, socialising and lots of running around and climbing on outdoor play equipment. It was a good way of letting off steam after a long journey :) Then L just about got to Gym and K to Beavers, where he was swimming up - I discovered too late that J and M were meant to be there too, to help with the swimming up ceremony - a weekend away, with delayed return, is not good when people try to make arrangements by email :(

So, Tues 9th and M’s last violin lesson. He wants to carry on, but I don’t know how likely that is once he’s back in France, especially given that he wants to keep up piano and recorder too. Last Gymnastics session too - the end of his stay seemed to be rushing up on us!
Wed 10th - Latinlite at Merry’s - yeast, sugar and warm water in jars with balloons on top to catch gas emitted, then we tested the gas :) French games on the landing for those not yet doing sewing, lots of play and chat… Cello and Baby Music as usual, then M’s last Cubs, marked with a card and some little gifts :)
Thurs 11th - Tots and then HE sport. Chris looked after girls for me while I went and spent far too much money on cake decorating supplies to put finishing touches to silly numbers of cakes - not that I ever bake when I should be doing housework :P
Fri 12th - day at home (at last!) and a chance to rattle through a few chores, make lists of games to play at party, bake and/or decorate cakes, get party food made (as working on morning of party) ensure beds sorted out for guests staying over…

Sat 13th - half term so no music school, but I was working (and usual 10 - 2 opening became 9 - 2:30 thanks to NCT training) so lots of dashing round. Michelle and Chris helped save the day, going far beyond the line of god-parently duty by getting here mid-morning and doing lots of sandwich making and general party prep - thank you :) - and I got back just in time to help Bob get everything to the hall and set up. Completely manic party - lots of children, lots of games, lots of food, no idea what was going on but I think most people either enjoyed it or were able to hide from it - and the pink chocolate fountain was a hit! Cakes all made it there successfully too, thank goodness.
Rather more chilled evening, with tea, leftover cake and a house full of friends - lovely :)

Sun 14th - Babs and co took M to his usual church. I took our children to our old church. Bob took Chris to railway station. Had to pop out for more food, leaving Barbara with numerous children, and got back to find Goddards and Manorborns had arrived :) Joined by Beans (without Helen :( ) and some Kentwell friends. More food, chat, tea etc - very nice way to spend a day :) In the evening we had a visit from Father Valentine, knocking on doors and windows and leaving gifts - not quite as elaborate as in the past, but still fun.

Mon 15th - Sports day all day for older Rainedrops, M, J and K. Meanwhile I took R, L and A to soft play while Barbara went to a lecture with her sister, then we met up at soft play and went back to college with sister to eat in rather elegant hall. Back home to pack before collecting sporty ones, then Rainedrops went their way and we came home ours.

Tues 16th - dropped K, L and A off with Gina so J, M and I could go to radio studio to do Woman’s Hour recording. Jenni Murray was great - nice to actually have some sensible questions! Horrible talkback on headsets though - really hard to concentrate when you can hear yourself a second or two later. While that was being sorted the boys got the giggles, which probably helped to settle any nerves, anyway. Quick pick-up,which disappointed children a bit, but Gina had other things to do and we needed to start M’s packing and make sure all his clothes were washed and dried. Wednesday was a quiet day, filled with not much more than finding things, making piles, fitting them into suitcases - and a fair bit of playing games too ;) I had hoped to get to Twilight at the Museums, but it would have been silly to squeeze more in, I think.
Thursday 18th was M’s last day here, which he spent with J and Bob in London. They met up with M’s mum at the station and went on from there - Bob’s story to tell, I think, as I was at Tots with K, L and A, mostly sorting toys and books ready for our move while the church is refurbished.
Friday 19th was a catch your breath day, I think, although we had intended to go and help Tadcu with clearing Grandad’s house, then Saturday was filled with baking and soup making ready for a ceilidh at church in the early evening. Sunday found the children dancing again, and also learning about how a violin works, at the second of the dancing sessions organised by Gina and friends. It was also an all age service at church, followed by a fair-trade lunch.

I think M going made the others realise how little time there was before J went. They seemed to close in together, sleeping in the same (fortunately large) bed and spending much of their time playing or reading together. HE work took a back seat as I felt they needed down time together, but at the same time we were trying to fit in visits to see people J wanted to say goodbye to before he went, or who asked to see him. On Monday we had again intended to see Tadcu, but bad weather intervened so it was put off until Friday, when we went to Auntie Norma and Uncle John’s on the way. Tues was violin, then gym for K but not J. Wed was Latinetc, with pea planting to see what conditions they like best, and lots of extra music for those taking exams soon. No Baby Music, so I took K and E to cello, which meant I could stay and watch the lesson for the first time, while Gina and Helen stayed here with all remaining children - which meant extra bonus time for play and chat before Cubs :) Thurs was Tots and then multisport and on Fri we managed to squeeze in a trip to the dentist for J - all fine but he has the same problem I had/have of having unusually deep grooves/holes in molars which means you have to be extra careful to clean food out; the first I knew about it was when I had a precautionary filling at 15, so I’m glad this dentist has at least warned us beforehand. Then we went to Grandad’s house, which was bittersweet. We came away with a box of books which were presented either to Grandad or to my great uncle Alf when they were about 10, which my dad and uncle read at about the same age and which my dad has now passed on to J to read because he’s the right age - or will be when he gets back from France :) I also have notebooks with all Grandad’s sermon notes, some children’s address props (but I’ll need to hunt through 70 years worth of sermon notes to find the talks to go with them!) and a great sheaf of papers which are my grandmother’s sermon notes, plus lots of their preaching books and resources. I need to set myself up a corner and do some proper work again soon, I think. The post-baby lull is finally wearing off. J talked all the way home, processing Grandad’s death and the circle of passing on memories and things. Not very easy to deal with at 70 mph on the A11.

Despite a late night we got the children to Music school on Sat. J had taken some En Famille International leaflets with him because he said he was tired of having to explain about it to everyone who asked. I don’t know how many he actually handed out though! L tried the violin ensemble this time, hoping it would be a fun way of getting a bit more violin into her week. It turned out to be rather prescriptive and distinctly lesson-like though, with a teacher who disapproves of “coloured strings” and likes things done her way. Poor L spent most of the time waiting to be told what to do, which eventually happened via an older student explaining things to her rather than the teacher actually giving any kind of instructions or explanations :( On Tuesday we spoke to Christina, our violin teacher, and she said she had already come across this particular teacher and sadly her advice was not only to not do the sessions but also to speak to the organisers and point out that this was not an ensemble and that it would be unhelpful to most of the children there. Back to recorder ensemble then, I think.
In the afternoon we went to our favourite toyshop where J managed to buy L’s birthday present (the cuddly seal she has been saving up to buy) without her noticing, then went on to choose a present for A (jointly with L and K) again without her suspecting :) Lots of browsing and playing later we had chosen a game or two for M’s family and some little bits and pieces for ours and it was time to come home.