Ahem

December 18th, 2010 by katy

Only a few weeks to catch up :oops:

October 18th – 24th included school films week, which we tried to take advantage of as much as possible, given other constraints. Monday was BF course, so no time for a film, but Tuesday strings group was early enough to let us go on to Kirikou et la Sorciere afterwards, which turned out, rather disappointingly, to be in English rather than the promised French but was nevertheless very enjoyable (utterly mad, but enjoyable!) and Wednesday’s Historyetc included a trip to see Percy Jackson and the Lightning Thief, which was excellent. Thursday Tots precluded a cinema trip, but we made it to art in the afternoon. All Friday’s films were fully booked, so we had part of the day at home to catch up a bit and then headed up to the Rainedrops for B’s birthday party :D Absolutely ace time with friends, doing lots of experiments and fun science as well as learning to levitate Maltesers and then staying up far too late.

Mon 25th and Tues 26th the boys had Bikeability, which they loved – great for K to gain some confidence in cycling and for J to build on what he did in France :) Wednesday was Latinetc (cheating – sorry!) and since half-term and no cello we went off with HH and Zoe afterwards to see if we could find a geocache which had been troubling them for some time. Success spurred us on to look for another… Good fun – really should do this more often, and we talked of doing a Latinetc cache, which could be very cross-curricular ;) Dashed back just in time to wolf down tea and go to an astronomy open evening (gave in to K’s pleading!) which was okay but tbh probably not worth the effort it cost us that evening. Ho hum.

The problem with blogging so long after the event is that I can’t remember what we did, unless it’s in the calendar – at least that makes it brief, I guess, but also frustrating as I’m sure there was more…

Mon 1st Nov we went to a Hallowe’en party with friends, including a treasure hunt, a candy hunt, pumpkin carving and large amounts of pizza, including one we ended up taking with us to eat in the car on the way to BF course :) Standard Monday after that (which at this point meant BF course, then drop L at gym before going on to teach with children in tow, back just in time to teach again while children given tea by Bob, who had picked L up on way back from work, gulp down enough tea to keep going and off out to babysit in return for promise of future ceilidh band favours, while Bob took children to judo – phew!) including late nights all round, then early morning Tuesday for strings group… yawn – late night followed by early morning, not a good idea really! Tues morning at Gina’s then off to Djembe for our first session, to see if we liked it. The teacher is excellent, very encouraging and able to get everybody going but also to keep order without anybody feeling told off. A found it a bit loud so only lasted half the session, but that was fine as there’s a separate room for reading/playing/escaping ;) Had to leave early to get L and A to violin though, which meant dragging the others away in the middle of a song. Back home for Rainbows for L, then gym for boys.

Wed 31st should have been a trip to Burghley House but we had been told we couldn’t go with under 5′s so a day off instead, apart from ‘cello which was uncancelled. Annoyingly it turned out to have been an excellent trip and we could almost certainly have taken younger children and just mooched around with them while older ones on trip :( Ah well, will just have to organise an outing there ourselves when all old enough to go ;)

I was preaching on Sunday, so spent a fair bit of time getting that ready, which meant benign neglect for children (as well as Tots, Music School, trombone, ballet…) and then we were into another hectic week, this time with added Bikeability on Tuesday (Chris giving the boys a lift most of the way back for me so L could still get to violin) and a trip to the Royal Albert Hall on Wed 10th for the preview of the Celebrating Remembrance exhibition. Bob came along as well, which was lovely as we so often end up doing trips like that without him, and we met up with my uncle and aunt there too :D It was exciting to see our piece up in a frame and with beautiful lighting to bring out the colours (having been stuck back together in places by RAH staff – and they went out and collected some more conkers to go with it too :) ) as well as looking at all the other artwork. There was an excellent piece about HE too, and why the RAH support it. We watched a presentation by a WWI re-enactor, about life in the trenches, met some Chelsea pensioners and listened to them talking about their experiences in war, then had a tour of the Albert Hall, including the Queen’s private entrance and box, which was great but unfortunately meant that we missed the re-enactor doing his Home Front presentation. I think I need to ask for his contact details, as he was truly excellent and would be well worth booking for HE group if at all possible. Once the preview was over we walked through Hyde Park admiring Anish Kapoor‘s World Turned Upside Down and had lunch in front of C-curve on our way to the Diana Memorial Playground. This was our first visit there and we were very favourably impressed, although it was bitterly cold. The children desperately want to go back in summer so that they can play in the fountains.

Thursday was Tots and then a dash across the country to art, which was great as ever, but meant that by Friday we were ready for a day of R and R! Saturday music school, trombone and ballet, Sunday Remembrance parade, this year for three of our four, and then lots of finishing off work ready for the BF course final hand-in on Monday 15th. Usual Monday, Bikeability Tuesday, Latinetc Wednesday (should have been History but was swapped with last week, when we were at RAH) – thank goodness for friends who are better bloggers than I ;) :lol: Thursday was Tots and Friday we stayed in for a Suma delivery which didn’t come – annoying as we had other things we would have liked to have been doing! Big Alice came to visit though, which made up for a lot :)

Saturday 20th was a big day for J, with assessments at a school he would rather like to go to, if not HE. We won’t know until March whether or not they have a place for him and tbh even if they do it’s going to be incredibly hard to get him there each day and very disruptive to everything else so… we’ll see… Meanwhile K and L had music school, and then L and A ballet, then I spent a peaceful evening babysitting.

Sunday found us welcoming F, my sister-daughter from Kentwell, come to stay for a few days of peace, work and playing with children. I think we managed the playing with children at least ;)

Bob has been spending lots of time working in London, which meant longer days than usual and some reshuffling of evenings/activities at times, but otoh had the bonus of getting him out of longer trips further afield. Tiring though, and made me very glad he normally works so near to home and with flexibility to bring stuff home rather than having to stay late often.

BF course now finished and one tuition session cancelled so a standard Monday but a little easier, especially with F around to do odd bits of childcare/ferrying when Bob not around :) Standard Tuesday too but minus strings because we all overslept and with added ‘cello to free up Wed afternoon, then a shortened Latinetc on Wed to allow for a trip to the Botanic gardens, with organised activities for children over 7 and a wander round the gardens for the rest of us, before decamping to the cafe to warm up and chat :) I should have been at a LP meeting in the evening, but forgot :oops: – frustrating as I found out later I missed some important discussions :( Plus I’m leading the next one so really should have been at this one!

Thursday was a busy day for K, as after Tots and CHEF sport he went home with his alter ego K for a sleepover and was brought back to us after having been to an art session the next day. Our car was at the garage having suspension sorted so we had a day at home baking for HE camp. Usual music and dance-filled Saturday and then on Sunday we set off for Okehampton, leaving Bob behind, with yet more trips to London in the offing.

Pause for a cup of tea… Will try to come back to this later, but don’t hold your breath! (Sorry Michelle!)

Bangs and smells

November 13th, 2010 by bob

Yes, a Chemistry lecture. I had just got back from a work trip to London when Katy persuaded me to take the children back to where we used to live for a public family Chemistry lecture, while she was out teaching. We managed to feed them quickly and got there just after the introduction, but had to sit near the back. In an ideal world I would have taken just J or J+K, but had to take all of them. L was tired, and while things were happening was fine, but the mild explanations and introductions were too boring. A wriggled, quietly enough, but was further gone than L. The boys enjoyed it though.

The lecturer made me think of someone’s grandfather, pottering around in his shed, showing things to his grandchildren. Some of the things would be because he thought they’d like them, and some were because he just liked them so much he was going to show them anyway. A little bit of explanation, but mostly just fun stuff. That the grandfather happened to have a shed remarkably well stocked in strong and dangerous chemicals, and the grandfather happened to be a Chemistry professor was just by-the-by.

We had squash bottles on launch ramps being jet-propelled by burning hydrogen, burning crisps in liquid oxygen (surprisingly large flame), melting iron, and a clock reaction. He did a couple in enormous glass ball-shaped jars – one was burning phosphorous, which gave off lots of smoke that was lit up by the flames so that it glowed, and the the other was little orange sparks going up like fireflies or baby fireworks – magical.

He also did a bit about the scientific process, how you can only disprove things, and that no matter what the outcome of an experiment you win (by gaining more knowledge). He then blew bubbles in bubble mixture, with the bubbles containing a mixture of oxygen and hydrogen, and asked people to say if they thought the bubbles would go bang when he lit them or just burn quietly. They burned quietly as there wasn’t much oxygen.

I dread to think how much all the chemicals cost that he gaily burned or melted in the course of the hour, but it was all good stuff.

Brown October brings the pheasant

October 17th, 2010 by katy

Then to gather nuts is pleasant.

Hmm, I can see why that verse didn’t stick in my head :lol:

October may not have brought us pheasants, but we did gather lots of (horse chest)nuts, which ended up being painted with poppies for our RAH Celebrating Remembrance art.

The boys had a sleepover with S and W at the beginning of the month, from which I picked them up on Monday in time to get to my BF peer support class, then we had the usual round of Monday afternoon rushing, with L’s gym, French with Deborah and boys and then back home for quick dinner and judo. Unfortunately the children’s latest night of the week is followed by the earliest morning, dashing across the county for K’s strings group and orchestra, which happen in the before-school slot on the wrong side of the wrong borough – ho hum! It does gain us a morning with Gina and co, when timings work, at least, as they did this time, which means J can have a piano lesson while the others tick a few boxes in English/Maths/French/whatever seems most useful at the time. Then L had violin (while the boys popped to the park with Sarah and Z, which is where most of the conker collecting happened), a brief play in the park for all of us and then back home for Rainbows and the boys’ gym session.

Wednesday was that rare thing, a free morning! We celebrated by doing a few normals and some music practice ;) K had cello in the afternoon and both boys Cubs in the afternoon. Thursday was Tots, as ever, and on Friday Gina and co came over so we could spend some time on RAH artwork – we talked about conkers and the war effort, then did lots of painting (and also playing) conkers, but also apple printing (some beautiful poppies produced that way) and J and J spent a while fiddling with photos using the Camedia editing programme to see if we could get an effect of age; they settled on sepia in the end and chose a picture where E and L were playing conkers and both looked as if they could conceivably be in period costume. Printed onto sticky-backed photo paper and stuck onto canvas board this formed the centre of our art piece, with a wreath of poppy conkers round it. So far so good…

On Saturday we had hoped to be at the Battle of Hastings reenactment, but again it didn’t happen (maybe next year!). Instead the children had music school and then Bob took the girls to ballet while the boys and I got cooking and tidying, making room for two more children in their bedroom and a couple of Rainedrops adults in the annexe :) Barbara and Chris, with impeccable timing, arrived just after Bob and the girls had got back and much chatting ensued :) We were joined by Michelle and Marcus and spent a lovely evening catching up – it’s definitely been too long since we had a good chat like that (as evidenced by the fact that we stayed up far too late…) – thank you all for coming, and please come again soon!

Sunday started too late for church, realistically, so we had a leisurely morning instead, with a trip to the park for all those of us who didn’t have A Level maths to mark ;) When Barbara and Chris left they took K with them, to go to an activity camp with B, and left us R. She fitted in beautifully, even to the extent of sleeping curled up in the big bed with J, L and A :lol: (Barbara – we did offer her a bed of her own, honest!) and clearly expected to be given work to do, so on Monday morning the girls played around with letters while J reluctantly did slightly more age-appropriate work and wound up his mother. I had been debating missing BF on Monday afternoon, but in the end decided it would be easier to go than to have work to catch up as well as homework to do. Fortunately the ladies in the creche didn’t seem to mind having R instead of K (although they were a little surprised that he seemed to have changed gender!) so I left the children with a small pile of work to do and went off to find out about problems with breastfeeding and the support available. And then we dashed about as usual, including taking R to judo, where she found the games good and the breakfall practice a little too scary, but had to be dissuaded from joining in the sparring :lol: with the added complication of having to leave Bob to it all because I had a continuing local preachers’ development session which I couldn’t miss because in a rash moment some months ago I offered to lead it. Since I had now almost completely lost my voice I had to change my plan rather quickly and find material written down somewhere so that others could read it out for discussion rather than me raising it initially. This page came to the rescue with enough material that I could just whisper the extra points I wanted raised and then leave it to others to discuss – it is the nature of local preacher meetings that there is rarely a shortage of people willing to discuss things ;) It went well – in fact a little too well, as I’ve now been asked to do something similar at the general local preachers’ meeting in March…

Since we didn’t have K we didn’t have to get up early on Tuesday, and L was not feeling quite herself, so we laid abed until rather later than usual and then ambled over to Gina’s for J’s piano, French for all the girls, a bit of playtime in the garden and a bit of a whinge from me about J’s attitude recently :oops: Violin was good (yay for Christina may become my motto :lol: ) and then the girls had a snuggle on the settee with a video while J and I mended some fences and did a bit of work at last. It should have been Rainbows for L (her promise making session too) but we had decided earlier on to cancel as she was not feeling quite well and I think that was the right decision. If nothing else, it gives us another week to sort out uniform and find out what the promise is that she’s supposed to learn… Rainbows leader popped by in the evening with a catalogue for uniform and said she’d give us a copy of the promise (it’s now Sunday and no sign of it – ho hum), plus a goody bag and a very special events badge for L because she had been at Kentwell when lots of Rainbows visited :) J had gym, which he always seems to enjoy more once he’s there than in the anticipation. He’s thinking that he might keep going until the end of term and then stop, which we have said is fine as long as he will do something else to keep fit in its place. If he and K were to both give up I think I would look at putting HE group swimming back in, as Tuesdays wouldn’t feel quite so tight again and the cost for three of them would be about the same as gym for two. Just J giving up would make little difference though, other than financially, I guess, as we’d still have to get K there and back.

Wednesday 13th was Latinetc, with dangerous chemicals :shock: courtesy of HH. Even the younger group looked at the effect of hydrochloric acid on different metals, with some spectacularly smelly and smoky results! We also galloped through chapter 4 of Minimus and Zoe did some pastel Hallowe’en pictures with anyone at a loose end, which was great. I think we need to plan again, though, to make sure everybody gets at least three sessions of something and makes the most of the morning. (A still misses Michelle’s story reading – she was overjoyed to see her on Saturday and kept bringing books and a hopeful smile…) No cello for K, since he was still busy doing exciting activity stuff, so although Gina still had to go Helen and Zoe were able to stay and chat for longer, and good-enough weather meant lots of playing in the field for the children :)

Wednesday evening was a bit of a finely crafted piece of timing, as J was at Cubs and Bob at home with R, L and A while I went out to collect J, E and S from E’s ballet. We got back just in time to swing by and pick up our J from Cubs, where they had been looking at fair trade, including sampling some tasty products ;) and then brought everyone back home to finish off teas half-eaten before activities. Eventually all seven children were tucked up in the front room watching Madagascar, which was great until the closing titles woke everybody up enough to start dancing rather than dozing, at which point we sent everybody off to bed, leaving Gina’s three in sleeping bags in the front room ready for collection later. Gina arrived some time after 11 and had barely driven away when Barbara arrived, with K and B asleep in her car, so we were able to transfer them pretty much directly into pre-warmed, recently vacated sleeping bags in the front room and put the kettle on :) Unfortunately for my sleep debt, Barbara had been hoping to catch news of the rescued miners and before we knew it we were hooked and watching the last few come up, which meant we just had to stay until the end… and then we got chatting… It wasn’t the earliest of nights, anyway!

Thursday was Tots, but also a rehearsal for the music school concert with the Britten Sinfonia, which meant that J, K and L had to be in one place at about the same time as I needed to be in another. Barbara saved the day by taking them for me and then going on to visit the Beans, while I just had to worry about getting A and myself to Tots, which turned out to be a Book Club session I had forgotten about, so there were a few slightly disappointed people waiting for the Js to join them and read The Importance of Being Earnest – ah well. Our original plan had been for Barbara to stay until Friday, so that the Beans could join us all for tea (and optimistically on both Barbara and J’s parts, boardgames) on Thursday, but in the event, despite the fact that we are neither mice nor men, she had to go back earlier than planned so the Beans had some morning and we had some afternoon, then Barbara, B and R left. A was rather upset at not having people here any more (she’s a hospitable little soul :) ) so it was good that Chris and SB and then Helen and BB and finally all four of them at once were able to join us. Having met with success in making everybody work for their sushi supper on Saturday we decided that DIY pizza was the way to go this time, followed by some yummy desserts courtesy of Chris and Waitrose – thank you for another lovely evening; we really need to do this having people round thing more often!

Having decided at the last minute that a film on Friday was the way forward we were happy to get tickets for the NSFW showing of Ice Age 3, which was loud and a little on the scary side for A, but much enjoyed by all the children overall. Gina and co were there too, and we had tea and a chat with them afterwards then came home so that overtired crabby children could rest before the afternoon’s rehearsal and evening’s concert. Heavy traffic changed our later plans slightly, as there was clearly no point trying to get home in any of the gaps but luckily the room set aside for instruments, food etc was large and available so A and I stayed in there until Bob was able to join us in time for the parents’ performance of In C by Terry Riley. I have to admit, it was better than I had expected (especially having heard a rather scary version on youtube, which sounded awfully much like car alarms!) but it still isn’t something I would ever actively choose to listen of of my own accord! The children assure me that it was even better in the evening, with a few extra players and a bit more confidence ;) The rest of the concert planned for the evening looked rather more promising to me, including several choral pieces and a performance by Dame Evelyn Glennie but it was by invitation only, and we weren’t invited :( Still, the children got to hear most of it, as their performance was right at the end of the programme, and they were suitably impressed :)

Despite a late night, it was still music school again on Saturday morning. Bob did the drop off, and Baby Music with Anna, and then I picked them up and took them all to ballet, with work for the boys while the girls had their classes, so that Bob could get some jobs jobbed.

Today K threw things into disarray somewhat by managing to leave his fingers in the jamb while A closed the door, but we still made it to church more or less on time and they seemed to plump up again… He did a piano practice in the afternoon anyway, so they must have been better :? Bob sorted lunch, which gave me a chance to do some BF course work (still a bit more to do though) and then the afternoon had country dancing, which was fun (and I got to Strip the Willow, thanks to someone who didn’t want to dance with anybody she didn’t know, but did know me :) ) and then a trip to the park which went on rather longer than planned, sucked in by sunshine and good company. By the time we got home Bob had dinner on the table and it was pretty much bedtime for children. And now I’m done it’s pretty much bedtime for me too ;)

Sprinting through September

October 3rd, 2010 by katy

So, Fri 3rd September was Ypres, which still deserves a post of its own, and might even get one eventually…

The weekend was spent recovering – fortunately no music school yet.

On Monday the boys spent an unexpectedly free morning (A’s ballet not having yet started) canoeing, which they absolutely loved, and then we dashed back so that I could get to the first session of a breastfeeding peer support course I am taking this term. A is in the creche and the others too old for it, but allowed to sit quietly in the same room and get on with work or reading :) It looks like being a good course (equivalent to GCSE, apparently, so with a fair bit of work to do at home) – at least I hope so because it’s taking a big chunk out of the day! We got back home with just enough time for L to get ready for Gym and J and I to prepare some ideas for French activities to do with a family of small boys while she was at gym. Bob picked L up, arriving home a little before the rest of us, quick tea and then everybody out to judo, which J and L were trying to see if it’s something they want to do as well as K. They loved it, so I guess judo is now a fixture in our week :) I should have been at a local preachers’ meeting that evening, but I forgot until almost too late and then couldn’t get hold of Bob to ask him to take A (he was at judo) and so didn’t make it. Or send apologies. Oops :(

Tuesday would have been K’s strings group, if it had been on, but it hadn’t yet started for the term so we ambled across to Gina’s anyway, but later, to make a few plans for the term. Violin was on, and L and A were absolutely overjoyed to have Christina back :D Back home only for L to go out to Rainbows, and then the boys to gym – our week is definitely shaping up to be Mon/Tues/Wed hectic.

Having said that, Wednesday 8th was a day of many plans and rather less reality. The morning was free, as no Latinetc or Historyetc, so cello was our first commitment. Then we dashed back to hand K over to a friend who had offered to take him to Reading Club with her son and to get L to ballet. As it turned out, ballet wasn’t on, and nor was the monthly reading Club – that had apparently happened the previous week… Cubs was a collage making session, using materials brought back from holiday – bit of a nothing tbh, especially as we hadn’t been on holiday so the boys had little to take.

Thursday was Tots, with a couple of new families :) and Friday a meet-up with friends, then Saturday brought the return of Music School, with the exciting news that they are to work with the Britten Sinfonia this term – slightly less exciting to find that the piece selected is “In C” by Terry Riley, a minimalist piece which they are all finding challenging more from boredom than from technical difficulty. J says it is mentally hard to play, but not physically. It will be interesting to see if it comes together and is more fun when they get to play with the actual Britten Sinfonia later ;) The choir part of the music school is fab this term though; they’re doing Britten’s “This little babe” and also working on a possible production of Joseph :) A’s baby music has moved to music school too, which makes life much easier. Oh, and J now has trombone lessons there – double bonus!

After Music School we went to Stourbridge Fair and met up with lots of friends, Tudor and otherwise, listened to a few stories from the local storytelling group, found out about the history of the fair, met some beekeepers and joined in with some lovely medieval dancing (with a bit of interesting sling and toddler juggling on my part) :D I had a lovely quiet evening babysitting too – excellent day!

On Sunday we went to an open day (afternoon) at Buckden Towers – a place we’ve been past many times without knowing what it was – it was really interesting to find out more about a place which seems to be a
little gem, stuffed full of history and interest but tucked away and barely known.

Monday was another whirl, with A ballet, BF course, L gym, French, judo… And then Tuesday found us on our way to London for a follow-up INSET to the Ypres trip, leaving A with Gina so that we could do some fancy child-shuffling and get to both workshops on offer. We spent the morning having a tour of the Royal Chelsea Hospital with a charismatic in-pensioner called Ken, then a quick lunch outside the National Army Museum before going in for the workshops. The first one was a NAM schools one on Propaganda, which involved thinking about how we use historical sources, then looking at posters and deciding what they were about and at whom they were aimed, leading on to designing our own posters and describing those in the same way. Then we were given information and ideas about the artwork we need to produce for the Celebrating Remembrance exhibition (argh – have to get going!) and split into HE families and teachers (cunningly I handed my children over to Dave so that they could do the HE workshop while I pretended to be a teacher and got some more ideas ;) ) with the HE families doing another NAM workshop, this time looking at realia and stories from soldiers, while the remaining adults worked with an art teacher to start thinking of how to present the concepts to a class and start to turn them into an art piece. The most helpful part was making an ideas board, or mood board, with lots of scraps and pictures on it, linked with ideas and ways they could fit together or be presented – rather like a topic web, which it would have occurred to me to do for a written piece, but mostly visual. It was good to be made to do it, as it’s not something I’d have thought of, or indeed done even if I had thought of it, otherwise; I don’t think in pictures but in words! We all came together again after that (and Dave dashed off home with E and J, who had a busy evening to get to) for a talk from a Commonwealth War Graves Commission rep – very interesting but not as helpful for art ideas ;)
L had to miss Rainbows and K and J gym, but I think it was worth it – I wish we could get to London a bit more quickly/cheaply/easily, as every time we go I come back enthused with ideas for places I’d like to take the children…

Wednesday was Latinetc, which was at Helen’s this time, and very gentle with lots of rabbit adoration ;) L had been absolutely abominable that morning, so we were late and I was horrible and made her write lines instead of adoring bunnies. She did write them beautifully though, and with so little fuss I think she realised she had gone too far. Science involved making some beautiful (but disturbingly cocktail-like) layered sugar-water rainbows and a rather cool oil water salt lava lamp :) Latin was a dash through Minimus chapter 3 for most, and a bit more of chapter 3 Galore Park for J and J. SB and K did some Galore Park French too, joined by E and L for some of the time. Gina did some music with various people at various times, A and S made some lovely leaf prints using sun reactive paper, and all in all it was a nice chilled session, despite an unpromising start! I dashed across with K, E and L for cello and work in the car, then Gina joined us later with S, J, J and A so they could have a little longer at Helen’s. L ballet somehow didn’t happen (and in fact we decided not to bother any more this term as the timing is just too awkward; looking into Sat ballet instead) and the boys’ Cubs, which was to have been a visit from some Australian shepherd dogs, was less exciting than it might have been since the dogs had kennel cough :( I was looking at the Community Choir at the same place as Music School, but trying to fit that in on a wed eve as well might just be one thing too much, I fear.

Thurs was Tots, as usual, and on Friday we went to a localish HE group session on making paper bag albums, which was fun (and I ended up buying lots of bags from her so we can do it at Tots or on a Wed sometime) but we again didn’t make it back in time to get to the free sports session we’ve yet to try – 4:30pm on a Friday in the next town is just too hard to manage, it seems, even for something we know would be good if only we could get to it!

Saturday Music School was followed by the other K’s birthday party, at a local swimming pool. J, K and L all very much enjoyed the swimming, but A was utterly miserable, as the water was cold enough to encourage proper swimming and the shallow end too deep for L to stand up in, leave alone A. After a brief dip she asked to go to the loo and we never quiet made it back in, instead sitting on the edge (air temperature was very warm; water very cold) and throwing toys in for others to fetch, then having a long hot shower ten minutes before everyone else got out. Lots of balloons and tasty food in a big hall was a recipe for success, with a chance to chat with a few people we’d not seen for a while – lovely, thank you Susan and Dave :)

On Sunday we had intended to go to the Honey Show in nearby park, but a combination of poor weather and overtired/not entirely well children meant we decided against that, especially knowing that Monday was to be a normal busy day. I did get my three pieces of work done for my course though. Tuesday started early, with K’s strings and orchestra from 8:15 – 9:10. Violin was great, as ever (L would like to have a lesson every day) and the boys went to the park with a friend while L and A were busy. Rainbows and gym as usual. Wednesday was the first ever Historyetc, at Helen’s, with bonus Jax and family – K was very happy to see Small again :) It went well, I think, plus the weather was very kind to us and we didn’t have to dash off so I was able to leave all but K there and take E and K to cello then come back afterwards for a bit of extra time. Cubs was go-karting, which the boys loved – J is making the most of being a Cub for an extra half-term, since he should have gone up to Scouts already, but I begged a delay so that he could acclimatise again ;)

Thursday was Tots, as ever, and then could have been CHEF sports, but we had already arranged to do an art session on Picasso so dashed across to that instead – and it was well worth it! We looked at some of Picasso’s art and talked about what he was trying to show, particularly since we know that he could draw really well and realistically – his art teacher at 8 said he had nothing left to teach him – so why are so many of his pictures so very unrealistic? The children each brought with them an object which made them feel a strong emotion and talked about how that felt, then sat down with sketch pads, acrylics and canvases to see if they could produce a picture which was about emotions rather than about accurate depiction. L was soon in tears because she could not see how to do what she wanted and Melanie, who was running the session, did a fantastic job of talking her through that, such that L set to work on something else entirely and ended up with a picture she is very pleased with, which shows her feelings about the world :) K did a piece on war which he hopes to use as part of the RAH work, while J played around a bit with a few ideas and then completed a picture about the environment. A played with colours and has a couple of lovely abstract pieces, which I love.

On Friday we picked up S and W so that their mum could have a few hours free for work, and took them with us to a Letterland workshop organised by a local HE parent who also runs a toyshop. There were lots of games for those too old for Letterland to play with, which has increased the children’s Christmas wish-list somewhat, and a park outside which would have been great had the weather been just a little better; as it was I stood and watched them all playing in the rain until I could bear it no longer and then we went in and warmed up before heading for home.

Saturday was more than triple booked so we had to prioritise and even then divide ourselves up. K, L and A went to music school with Bob, while J and I went to look at a school he rather likes the sound of – and indeed it does look fab, but is a good 45 minutes drive away and heavily oversubscribed. Although it is a state comprehensive school they have 12 places each year which are allocated on linguistic and/or musical aptitude so J would be hoping for one of those places (along with about 250 other children). We figure it’s worth trying the tests at least and then if he gets offered a place we can still opt not to take it up. If he doesn’t get in, or we decide it’s too hard logistically then HE is the next preferred option. It’s all a bit scary really! The plan had been to get ready for Kentwell and go along to set up tents on Saturday evening, but the weather was not promising so we decided to leave it and take the tent with us on Sunday instead, to see if it might be better then. It wasn’t, and the tent stayed un-put-up, but we had a good day nonetheless, with Bob on the gate and the children all with me in the Cotte. We came back for the usual busy Monday, then the children and I set off at sparrowfart on Tuesday in hopes of getting the tent up early, got stuck in traffic and ended up having to do it after flagdown instead – just before the rain started, at least. On Wednesday the boys both ended up being pedlars, which they loved, while L and A stayed with me in the cotte, where L learned to card and spin :) The rain looked set to stay on Wednesday so I took the tent down first thing, soggy as it was, before it got any worse, then after flagdown we cleared up and had tea before setting off for home. Meanwhile Bob had spent the day at home while solar panels were fitted to the workshop roof – exciting stuff!

Fortunately Thursday was bright and sunny so we were able to get at least some of our things dry, although it would have been better if I had hung them out before Tots and CHEF sports :roll: Friday was miserable again, so lots of stuff had to be hung inside, and Bob again worked from home, with the boys too, so that I could dash off to see a friend, using the small car (which doesn’t fit all the children) while the big one (which does) had its MOT. We got back really late, but still managed to get the children to music school and then L and A to ballet, trying out a new Saturday class so that Mondays will be less manic. Phew! It’s been quite a week!

Whizzing through the weeks

September 5th, 2010 by katy

On Tuesday 24th August we went to visit Bob’s sister. The children were very excited, especially K who gets on particularly well with his cousin C :) We had a lovely day there, with Pippa demonstrating some of her favourite Pampered Chef products for me (she is an agent, and having seen some of the gadgets and chatted to her about what she does I am very tempted to start doing it myself!) and the children playing together in the garden while we played in the kitchen :)
We had to come back earlier than we would have liked, because I was giving blood (okay, except for having to change arms because the nurse couldn’t find a suitable vein; even on the second arm it took a while – ho hum) but at least it meant we avoided our usual problem of getting halfway home and having to stop for something to eat because it is just too far away to fit nicely in a day without. In the evening we phoned my dad so the children could all sing him Happy Birthday, and got the bonus of a long chat with my sister, who happened to be visiting :D

Wednesday and Thursday were at home, trying to keep a few normals going. We read about Dali and then the children each chose a picture they liked to either copy directly or have a go at that style. They did some Mathletics. J and I did some Latin, trying to catch up to where we should be in Galore Park (halfway through chapter 3) rather than where we are (halfway through chapter 2). K and L did lots of reading, much of it to A :) We sorted through their various drawers and passed things down, on or into storage as appropriate. We discovered the game of Hive we had bought for J before he went to France and played lots of games of that. And so on…

On Friday we set off for Framlingham Castle to meet up with Jax and co for a day of Time Travelling. When we got there we realised that the Time Travellers that day were in fact the Heuristics, which pleased the children mightily. We had about half an hour before their first show, so decided to go up on the walls, with a Horrible Histories style audio guide, which again pleased the children mightily! That took slightly longer than we had, really, so we missed the beginning of the show, but still managed to park ourselves near the front with a good view of what was going on. The talk, on Medieval inventions, was the same as we had seen at the Festival of History, but then we had had to leave early, whereas this time we had arrived late, so it all worked out nicely really ;) Jax and co arrived a little later, and the children all chatted and played together nicely. When they decided to go up on the walls L asked if she could join them, which just left me with J and K playing board games and A wanting to explore. Soon it was time for castle building, which attracted an enormous number of children, so that it looked as though some (including Small) were going to miss out on putting pieces in place. Fortunately this was made good by careful allocation of pieces next time round, so everyone got a go at something. Having built the castle they were given peg-doll defenders to put into place, and then mangonels with little wooden balls to knock it all down again :lol: Then everybody got to collect the balls up (A’s favourite part of the whole day!) and replace the defenders ready to knock it all down again.
After three quarters of an hour or so of playing time (which the children used to the full :) ) it was time for another talk, this time on Medieval medicine. It was very well done and absolutely hilarious – especially for the children, but with a little edge of mischief for the adults too :norty: The rain which had seemed to be threatening in the morning held off, which meant that we never did get to explore inside – we’ll just have to go back! – but we did get to have a lovely wander round the dry ditch, with the children running and climbing and generally having a whale of a time while Jax and I walked somewhat more sedately behind and chatted. It was a lovely day – thank you Jax :)

Saturday 28th was Astronomy Club for the boys, and L chose to go along too, which meant Bob and A had to sit in the parents’ creche. It was about heroes of astronomy and apparently lots of fun. Then they went into town and hired a trombone for J, who is hoping to squeeze lessons into Saturday music school (he has an offer of teaching, if they can make the timing work).

For some reason I spent Sunday feeling completely shattered – not ill, just exhausted and pretty much unable to do anything. Simply loading the washing machine was enough to wipe me out for half an hour or so. Bob took the children to church, leaving me in bed, with brief forays out to do minor jobs. I could probably have forced myself to get up and about, if I’m honest, but I had a rotten headache and was aware that when I do force myself it means things tend to linger even longer, which would not have been good for the end of the week we had planned. It didn’t help when I discovered that the top airing cupboard was full of damp linen from the leaky roof we had been hoping was cured. It had obviously been leaking just above a rafter then the water running through the timbers to the airing cupboard and soaking into all the bedlinen kept there. The bottom layer of stuff was musty as well, from damp wooden slats which had obviously been that way for some time, while we were thinking it was okay because the patch on the ceiling beneath was staying dry. We really need that roof to stay sound for a few more years, so I’m hoping this will be relatively easily dealt with, but it’s frustrating that we can’t see where the leak is coming from because it’s not a drip, just a slow seep. Fortunately it was a dry and blowy day so I managed to get all the affected linen and towels hot-washed and dried. Unfortunately there’s nowhere really to put them if we can’t trust the airing cupboard!

Despite trying to get lots of rest on Sunday I spent Monday with a migraine, while the children tiptoed round and tried to be helpful. We did do some normals, but then retired to bed with books and all snuggled up together, J helping me out with the reading when I just couldn’t do it any more. Bob did tea when he got home, so I didn’t have to worry about that either (I’m very lucky in my menfolk, on the whole ;) ) – still working on the basis that I didn’t want to start the week tired, knowing that I was going to end it with a long day and lots of driving.

On Tuesday we set off nice and early for Peterborough, where we wanted to go to the Museum for a Medieval exhibition, complete with living history re-enactors. We also signed up for a children’s tour of the town, thinking it was likely to be quite busy as they only happen once a week in holiday time. We spent the first half of the morning looking round the exhibition space, which was very well laid-out and J, K and L all enjoyed very much, but A found too dark and scary. It was only the hunt for mice, with the promise of a sweetie prize, which kept A in there at all, whereas I think the others could happily have stayed for longer, especially once we had found the game of medieval life and the clothes and hats to try on. J and K did trails there too, then afterwards we went upstairs to look at the rest of the museum so that L could do the trail she had chosen. We spent most of the time playing Roman games – it’s a fantastic museum for hands-on interactive stuff, especially things to suit younger children – and then J’s stomach started to rumble and we all agreed it was time for lunch so headed into the Queensgate centre to find somewhere to sit and eat. Then we mooched round a few shops and returned to the museum in time for our tour. It turned out that we were the only ones booked onto the tour, so we had a costumed guide all to ourselves as we walked the streets of Peterborough learning a few of the more gruesome (a la Horrible Histories, rather than Hammer Horror!) bits of its history. It was good – and K now wants to go back and do the night-time Ghost Walk, but I’m not sure we’re ready for that yet!

Wednesday was Latinetc, our first one of the new academic year, I guess. Zoe couldn’t make it, but Merry brought S as well as her girls, so we were able to work in pretty much our normal groups. It was odd not to have Michelle and C, but Merry did sterling work with the pasta and got almost as flummoxed by the kettle as Michelle :) We did a Classics-heavy session this week, with GP Latin and Minimus chapter 2, some music theory and a bit of music practical too, and then lots of mosaic making, using eggshells on coloured sugar paper. S and L worked together and produced a rather stunning opus sectile while BB’s turtle was also most impressive. J and J both chose to do Mario figures (I think) but it was only when it was almost too late to do anything about it that we realised Gina’s J hadn’t glued his pieces down as he went – and then the wind blew his paper over and it was too late :( F produced a modern take on mosaic,with a very textured piece, while K tells me he and M need to finish theirs next week…

Thursday was the first Thursday in September, which meant Tots again, although we had no idea who might be there – and a very good idea of who wouldn’t, so we took work with us to do if nobody turned up, and nobody did. Ah well. Day five of nagging headache so quite a relief really ;) We spent a fair bit of the afternoon shopping and preparing lots of packed food for our epic day on Friday, which deserves a blog post all of its own, even if I just end up copying and pasting from flickr!

1940s weekend

August 22nd, 2010 by katy

We had intended to go to Framlingham Castle on Friday to do a bit more time travelling but in the end the children decided they fancied a day at home instead, with a visit there next week if we can manage it. Big Alice came over and they showed her how good they all are at riding bikes (L still can’t start by herself except going down a hill, and isn’t quite reliable on steering or stopping, but both boys have got it sussed to the point of practising tricks and stunts now) and did lots of playing on the field, then came in and let her sit for a bit while they played a few board games. I went out on a (sadly fruitless) quest for plastic storage drawers for the bathroom and x10 lenses, which we had been told came from the £1 shop. We don’t have a £1 shop in our nearest town, but we have a couple of similar places, so I was hoping, but the nearest I could find was a set of x5 and x3 – put them together and you get x8, which is getting there, I guess… Alice stayed for tea and we initiated her into the delights of roll-your-own sushi :mrgreen:

On Saturday our plan had been for me to take the children to the 1940s event at RAF Upware, leaving Bob behind to get lots of jobs done (like cementing in the manhole cover frame in our driveway, which has been sitting precariously ever since we decided the old one was just too rickety to be safe) but we were a bit late leaving and then we got side-tracked, having missed a turning and ended up in the rather lovely village (town?) of Ramsey. We found a lovely higgledy-piggledy charity shop, where everything seemed to be £1 or less, including a couple of bike helmets so that the children now have one each, and a discount shop which sold completely random things in odd quantities for small sums – spent £7.50 there and came out with tins and packets galore! We parked up by the Abbey gate and read the national trust plaque there (but since it wasn’t an afternoon of the first Sunday of the month we couldn’t go in), admired the Parish church, walked back through the main street admiring the 1940s shopfronts (and occasional passer-by in costume) and browsed the stalls that had been set up along the pavement, including a tombola run by a man so desperate to get rid of things that he let the children have 5 tickets each for £1, then made sure that they each won something – they were chuffed but I can’t help thinking that’s more tut to get rid of :roll: By now it was chucking it down so we sheltered under the awning of a greengrocer’s stand and chatted to him about his produce, which included apples and plums from the farm we had visited for the plum festival :) We bought some more apples (Discovery – one of my favourite varieties) and a few other bits and pieces as well, including a romanesco broccoli/cauliflower, which the children ate with great delight both raw and cooked for tea. Another thing to add to our list of veg we’d like to try growing ;)
We got home to find that Bob had had to dash out and buy cement, since what he had bought before was concrete and not really suitable… The frame was embedded though, and looking quite neat, just waiting for the cement to dry enough so that the lid could go back on :) J, K, A and I went out again still in search of plastic storage drawers, but this time to replace A’s tut drawers, which we had decided to use in the bathroom. She wanted pink, so was happy to give up the blue ones which we had actually got for M to use when he was here. The boys dashed in for bike lights, while I stayed with A in the car park to avoid having to pay for a 5 minute stop, coming back with something which was not at all what I expected and I am not convinced will work, but we’ll see. Then we looked for drawers and water butts. We were intending to move the slightly leaky one which is currently outside the kitchen door with a larger one and move the current one to the workshop, where there is a connector spilling water onto the new fence each time it rains :( Also hoping that a new tap will fix the leak and make that butt as good as new anyway. They had no large water butts left, but did have slimline ones on special offer, which can be connected together to give more storage and would fit better in the space available anyway, we thought, so we got those – after huge amounts of waiting for staff to get back to us with various bits of information. No taps, and no suitable drawers either, so we ende dup having to go elsewhere in any case, where we managed to get silver drawers, which A decided were acceptable even though not pink, and a water butt tap :) By now it was getting late so we popped into a supermarket to pick up stuff for quick tea and came out with lots of reduced tasty veg pots which salved my conscience a little on the feeding my children ready meals front :lol: Oh, and also a large chocolate mousse which is the first shop bought mousse I’ve ever found which was veggie – perhaps not healthy but oh so yummy!

Today we decided to do the RAF bit of the 1940s weekend, and Bob wanted to come too, so we all set off together. It was a very expensive day, as entry was not cheap by the time we had 5 of us to pay for (but we were hopeful it would be worth it, as the event promised much in terms of numbers of re-enactors and things going on) and then practically everything once you were in was extra – we managed to keep it down to ice-creams (it was a stinking hot day!), a ride on swing boats, a ride on a miniature steam train and a few bits and pieces for mementos, but still spent far more than we had intended! We could have spent far far more, as there were stands, stalls and things to do on every side – but 9 out of 10 of them to be paid for :( J wanted me to be made over 1940′s style, with back-combed hair and bright red lips, but I resisted. We might try it at home sometime though ;) There was an airshow going on above our heads, which looked good (and probably accounted for a fair chunk of the entry price) and lots of clearly very knowledgeable people about, but somehow it wasn’t as lively or as involving as I’d expected – perhaps I’ve been spoilt by Kentwell and their very interactive approach! Definitely worth having been to once, but I’m not sure we’ll bother again, or at least not for a few years, until all the children are old enough to get more out of it – perhaps when we get to Book 4 of Story of the World will be the right time. It may also be, of course, that I’m just not really into the militaria and the WWII stuff, so perhaps I’m not the best person to judge…

Having said all that, A spent a fair bit of time chatting to a parrot :lol: and there was one rather lovely little corner, where a bit of everyday life at home was being recreated, including two small children playing in a tin bath full of water – the best place to be on a day like today, I think :) – watched by a young woman while another woman was washing clothes by turning the handle on her machine and then running them through a mangle before hanging them out to dry. I think that kind of cameo of real life is much more to my taste and I’d happily have spent longer there. L, A and I stayed for a while watching them and looking at the toys and everyday household items, then realised that Bob still had the camera and he and the boys were across the yard from us trying on fireman’s helmets (another highlight of the day: lovely old fire engines and pumps, including a steam-powered one). L ran across to tell them we had found something they should come and see, tripped and fell, badly grazing her knee and shredding the palm of one hand :( Unfortunately the wounds were very dirty and full of small bits of gravel, and there was nowhere to get her cleaned up, so having dabbed with a wet tissue and failed to make much progress we decided to seek medical assistance and took her to the St John Ambulance, who cleaned her up very efficiently, dressed the wounds – and took lots of personal details :? – and then the airshow started and somehow we never did make it back to that lovely little area, or even to the fire engines :(

Eventually K and L were just too tired and fed up to keep going, so we made our way back to the car and came home for a revivifying water fight :lol: which ended up in a bath before tea and then an early night for the children… and I think I might follow their example…

SATS and secret agents

August 19th, 2010 by katy

This has been a catching up kind of week so far. J tried an English SATs paper, to see how it went – reading first of all. He didn’t do as well as I’d hoped (level 4A, so fine for age) but we realised when we went through it together that it was largely because it was the first time he had done anything like that and there were several questions that he had answered but not quite in the right way. It was clear that he had understood exactly what he was reading, but he didn’t get the marks because the mark scheme requires you to answer in just the right way. A little exam technique practice wouldn’t go amiss, I think ;) He has had a similar problem with the short writing paper – he produced a rather lovely piece of descriptive writing but didn’t stick to the brief, so much of it doesn’t count :( (and we *still* need to work on consistently using capital letters!) – and the first Science paper – with a couple of marks lost because he was (correctly) answering a far harder question than they were asking! Having gone over those, I’m hoping he’ll tackle the remaining papers next week and try to put into practice the things we’ve talked about when it comes to answering questions :lol:

L, watching J do papers, wanted to try too, so we had a look at a Maths Level 2 paper from 2004. Despite occasional tears and tantrums *sigh* she got through it and scored highly enough to be worth looking at Level 3 when I can summon up the courage :lol: We might try some English papers too, I think, and maybe get K to do some too, although I’m not sure whether to jump him up, drop him down or attempt to find something aimed specifically at his age. Perhaps we’ll start with the Level 3 stuff to build up his confidence and then move up from there…

We also spent a couple of happy hours doing a Sculpey kit which worked really well – there were a number of different things to make, so each child could choose what they wanted to make. After we’d baked them they spent another couple of hours happily playing tea shops with the results :) Double the fun – thanks Merry :D

Wednesday was Latinetc, but a rather depleted one, with no Beans and no Puddlechicks. We did have the pleasure of Zoe and her girls, though, and a last session with Michelle and C for a while (although you’re always welcome to come along anyway, Michelle ;) ). No science, but we managed some French (pencil case vocab game – rather wild but fun!) and another quick whisk through Minimus chapter one for S and P’s benefit, followed by some chatting about Roman dinner parties and rich and poor households. I rather like doing half Latin and half Classics :) J and J did some GP Latin too, while the others played on the field. Some Music Theory happened, I think, and some recordering, and we all ate cake (J wanted to make one for C, including a little Eiffel Tower on the top, which he made very painstakingly, and occasionally painfully, out of cocktail sticks, only to find the craft sticks a few minutes after he had finished. Ah well.) and yummy crumble, which E assured me had been made by Gina “all by herself” :D Zoe had brought along lovely craft idea, which all the children managed to do, some with more help than others, making little felt brooches (or stuffed toys) with buttons and beads sewn on for decoration. They were all very pleased with their efforts, I think, and it worked well because the shapes could be pre-cut and then as many or as few buttons added as child (or parent) had patience to sew :) Gina’s glue came in useful too, for those who were tired of stitching ;)

Today we went to a lovely birthday party, on the theme of Secret Agents, so the children spent yesterday tea-time coming up with ideas for different kinds of agents they could be. In the end, L opted for taking an inflatable globe with her, to be a secret travel agent (sidling up to people and saying “Psst, wanna buy a holiday?) while K toyed with the idea of taking lots of pictures of houses with him to hide under a raincoat, but decided instead to dress in black and take a newspaper with eyeholes. A thought this was such a good idea she had to do it too :) The party hostess had had the happy thought of providing eyeliner pencils and a mirror so that they could draw themselves false moustaches (there was even a sheet of different moustache types to try) and that was great hit with all the children :) They also had secret phones with code words to work out in order to get their cake. The weather was kind to us, so lots of playing in the garden ensued (and the hosts do have a wonderful garden for playing in!) while A got to do lots of bouncing on the trampoline because it had been reserved for the three littlest guests – a lovely idea, thank you Emily :)

Mamgu’s recipe for gingerbread

August 16th, 2010 by katy

before I lose the piece of paper!

(heavily adapted from a C14th recipe)

1 cup of honey
a generous 1/4 tsp ginger
1/8 tsp ground cloves
1/8 tsp cinnamon
1/8 tsp ground liquorice
1 3/4 cups dry breadcrumbs
1 tab anise seeds

Heat honey carefully over low heat.
Add spices (except anise) and blend.
Add bread and mix thoroughly.
Cook for about 15 minutes or until starting to set.
Press onto a plate or tin and sprinkle with anise seeds.
Leave to cool before serving.

Dashing through the holidays!

August 15th, 2010 by katy

Time seems to be rushing past again, with the weeks galloping by…

The “holidays” began with a First Aid course for K and L on 23rd July, while A and I popped over to visit friends in the same town. J decided to stay at home, which was fine since Bob was working from home that day anyway. The course was done by Guardian and the woman teaching was excellent; both K and L came out having had a fantastic time and feeling confident that they would be able to deal sensibly with a minor emergency and to get help for a major one. We came home and packed for K’s Cub camp, then Bob took him there (he and J had been there the evening before, helping to put up tents ready for the camp) after tea. The rest of us went to the sports and arts festival day, as already blogged.

A week of Oliver! workshops for J, K and L followed, 9 – 1 each day, culminating in a performance on the Friday. Apparently it was great fun – they certainly did well to produce a very watchable mini-show (condensed to just under 30 minutes) by the end of the week, and they all worked very hard learning words, choreography and songs, some of which (mostly dances) were cut from the performance because there was an awful lot for such young children to learn (they ranged from 3 to 10, with J being the second oldest child there, I think) – it was originally planned to be 40 minutes long. All of the children (including A, who was quite put out at not doing the workshops) now want to join the drama school run by the same woman who did the workshops (although it would actually be different teachers on the day we could make) but that means we will need to look at the time and money budgets and see what goes and whether they really want it that badly… I feel we are a little overstretched as it is! For now, we have promised that they can definitely do another holiday workshop ;)

Unfortunately only A and I were able to get to the performance, which both Bob and the children were rather sad about, so we decided it was a good time to buy the digital camcorder we have been humming and hah-ing over for a while – only a little Flip, but it did the job (and was on special offer in Tesco’s, handily enough).

Thursday 29th July found us hosting a church coffee evening, which meant much tidying and not a little baking in the days leading up to it, as well as work on Oliver! It went well, I think – and £88 was raised, so worth the effort :)
Also that week we spent much of an afternoon looking at pictures by Kandinsky and then first having a go at making our own concentric circles and then choosing a favourite image or style to imitate (thanks to Merry and Zoe for the idea). K and L in particular were very taken by the apparently abstract pictures which on closer inspection were full of odd things, or impressions of odd things…

Then, of course, on Saturday it was the wonderful Beans party :D The boys went to Astronomy Club in the morning, while the girls and I did lots of cooking and a bit of costume finding to suit an Africa/safari/animals theme – it all became more and more vague as the children looked at random assorted ideas! In the end K dressed in green and went as a frog, L wore her silk wings and became a butterfly, A wrapped herself in a blue silk scarf and wore a matching elephant hat and J opted for his beloved Oliver! tee shirt. Having found the galabiyas Bob and I brought back from honeymoon in Egypt I was persuaded to wear one of those and only then remembered that Michelle was relying on me to act as translator and general persuader to C’s French family… Michelle was waiting for me as I walked in :lol: but needn’t have worried; they were lovely :D The weather was cooperative, the company delightful, the children splashed and frolicked in paddling pools and round the garden and we all had a lovely time – so much so that we decided to ask if we could go back again the next day, bearing cinnamon rolls and cheese stars to ensure a good reception ;)

There followed a week of swimming lessons for J, to help him catch up a little from having done next to no swimming whilst away. At his request we went for a pool a fair distance away, but small and friendly, and known to him through having done lessons there before. Since it was handy for Gina and co and J happened to be signed up to the same classes as E we managed to combine forces a couple of times, fitting in some piano, music theory, French, Latin and even science between us all over the course of a few days, as well as helping out with lifts while Gina’s car was being MOT’d. The week whizzed past, with all the things I had planned for afternoons being set aside in favour of bike riding in the field. J and K are now both quite happy on bikes, with L not far behind; she was cross at being left out so J sorted out a bike for her, pumping up tyres, checking for punctures, lowering the saddle and so on, then taught her to ride it!

On Sunday I was preaching, so Friday and Saturday were full of preparation for that. The boys both wanted to be involved in the service, so we practised readings together, but in the end they both decided that Sunday school, which they had been uncertain about in a strange church, looked too good to miss, so Bob and I reverted to Plan A and shared the readings out between us ;)
By Monday we needed a little r and r, so that was earmarked as a bit of a catch-up day, but then a friend emailed and asked if I was able to sign passport applications, which I am, and if we were around to do it urgently, which we were, so it turned into a having friends round to play day…

Tuesday started with piano etc and went on to include singing folk songs at an old people’s home in the afternoon, which began with a little panic as the organiser was nowhere to be found and that left two adults with a vague idea of what we were supposed to be singing, based on a list of words and some hastily googled tunes, plus 5 children aged 10, 8, 6, 5 and 3 and one tiny baby, none of whom knew any of the songs securely. We had all been intending to rely on the organiser to lead the singing… What made the whole thing rather surreal was that the staff were certain she had signed in a few minutes before we had all got there, and so must be somewhere in the building, but they couldn’t find her anywhere. It was only when somebody asked if she might be sitting in her car for some reason and I said that she hadn’t got a car that we started to wonder – apparently the woman who had signed in had also put a car reg. Then we checked spelling and realised it wasn’t her at all, which at least solved the question of “How on earth have we managed to misplace an entire family in an old people’s home?” but still left us with the problem of “How on earth are we going to sing all these songs we don’t really know with no music and nobody to lead us?”!

We quickly went through the list of songs and poems and decided which ones we would have to omit (actually only about 3) and which we could struggle through, while the children agreed to read some of the poems, then the staff led us through to the lounge where lots of elderly residents were waiting to be entertained and more were being brought, very slowly, to join them. All of a sudden there was a bit of a commotion and the organising lady arrived – phew! – having decided to just pop home and change herself and her daughters because they had been soaked by the morning’s downpour. It didn’t seem to have occurred to her that arriving nearly 30 minutes late might have made us start to worry, but in fact we were so relieved to see her that we didn’t say a word other than “Thank goodness you’re here!” :lol: In the end it was actually a very worthwhile afternoon, and one which I found quite enjoyable, although I fear the children had used up most of their patience in the 30 minute wait for organising lady to arrive and then the extra 15 minutes or so that it took for all the residents to be ready for us to start after that. They made a good stab of reading their poems, but gave up on the songs apart from the ones they already knew or the ones with lots of repeats of the chorus. I have to admit, there were an awful lot of words there! I think we’ll try to sign up for Christmas carols as well though :)

Wednesday was Latinetc, which was to have been a normal morning session and than an arty afternoon session, planning for a nature walk and then some sketching. Unfortunately Zoe wasn’t able to come :( and the art was a little less focused than we had intended, but I think each child still had a go at something, including using Merry’s rather lovely gel pens. The chemistry session Helen did, trying to work out what the mystery substance was (found in the fire pit after use), went very well as far as I could see, and there was also music theory for middle/older ones, French for younger/middle ones (playing a game which should have used a tape but in the end just had to use me, as the tape player refused to work; it was probably better that way really, though), cello trios, rounders, lots of playing, blackberry picking and crumble making for very little ones and a quick dash through Minimus chapter one for all those on the Latin list, followed by looking at how Roman towns were designed (all on the same pattern) and then designing our own. It was lovely to be able to fit so much in, largely thanks to having the afternoon to spill over into – thanks all :)

Gina’s J stayed over afterwards, which all the children were very happy about, but especially my J, and we gave him back to Gina the following day when we met at the Norris Museum for a garden art event. Having worried about the weather it actually cleared up just when we needed it to, but in fact we spent far more time indoors making 3D items for the collage they were preparing for the St Ives centenary (900 years!) and ended up with Gina and S outside, collecting children as they finished, while I stayed inside with artists until they were done. Luckily I had remembered the camera, so was able to take pictures of finished works as they went onto the collage (which is apparently to be displayed in the Free Church) – Gina’s J in particular spent a lot of time and effort making a rather lovely shop, while J made a swan (with help from Gina and S collecting feathers), K a boat, A a goldfish and L and E a collaborative sparkly fish for the collage and boat for S :)

We didn’t actually see much of the museum itself, although it looked interesting enough to merit another trip, I think. It’s very small and a bit higgledy-piggledy, plus you never quite know what you will see, since they have enough collections for a display four times the size (it’s rather a pocket-sized museum :) ) so they alternate what goes out. One thing which caught our eyes though was a display of Roman remains from our town, including a skull from a burial site not far from our house and a stone from the old Roman wall which we didn’t even know had been there, but when we stopped to think about it with our Roman Town Planner hats on must have been, because all Roman towns had a wall round them! There was even a plan of the town as it was in Roman times and another showing how it is now, overlaid with the main features of the Roman town – fascinating stuff, especially as it built so serendipitously on what we had just been studying :D We were able to trace all the key features we had read about and see where they fitted in, and even to see how they might fit with the shape of the town now. When we first moved here I remember seeing posters for history tours we had just missed; I hope they repeat them some time soon…

Outside they were bug hunting, which J really enjoyed, especially once he found he had a talent for creeping up on creepy crawlies and catching them in his flask :) A and S made little bugs and K, L and E made dragonflies from pipe cleaners with oht wings – very simple but very effective. By now S was pretty much out of patience, so we let the real bugs go, took the model ones with us and went to find some lunch, somewhat overwhelming a little church cafe with requests for toast when they didn’t have enough sandwiches for all of us. A good cup of tea made up for a lot though, and then Gina and co had to go and the children and I hit the charity shops. Our mission was to find respectable jeans for Bob, so he doesn’t have to wear his old holey ones to work any more, which we did, but we also found a few tapes for the car (including a Joyce Grenfell “George, don’t do that” :D ) and a Cluedo game which J and K were instantly entranced by and have now taught L to play as well :) The afternoon ended with a cello lesson for K, to keep him going a bit over the long holidays.

On Friday we met up with J’s godparents and their family at Audley End, in some of the most horrendous weather so far this summer! We arrived in rain torrential enough to keep us all in the car for a bit before venturing out, and the day continued with alternating bright sunshine and thunderous showers. Undeterred we went to the stables and saw old fire engines, then met a couple of very nice retired horses, listened to some stories and tried on some hats. A trip to the toilets turned into an extended stay at the play area, with handy tables and umbrellas nearby meaning it was a good place to eat lunch as well, while the children ran off to play whenever the sun appeared and back under the umbrellas as soon as it rained. J was waiting for the Time Travellers event advertised for 1 o’clock – the execution of Charles 1 – but when he and I dashed over to see if it was on (earlier events having been rained off) we arrived to find them making the most of a few minutes of sunshine to do a musket drill. By the time we got back with the news we were soaked almost to the skin by another downpour – thank goodness for raincoats and trees with a high leaf index!

The house beckoned, we thought, and all made our way over there, but on the way the children and I decided to check out the Time Travellers one last time, and the promise of an assault course was just too tempting to pass up, so we went and got passports, picked up a Roundheads and Cavaliers treasure trail and decided to brave the showers and stay outside, while Paul, Carol and co went inside.

The assault course was as good as it had promised to be, involving teamwork and timing to carry a cauldron containing a “bomb” round the field, under and over various obstacles (with 2 team members carrying the cauldron and the rest wooden “muskets”; all to pass under/over each obstacle), plant the bomb outside a castle door and then race back again via the same obstacles – as it happened ours were joined by a blind girl, so their task demanded even more teamwork than usual, but they did well :) While they rested from their efforts one of the travellers showed them his musket and talked them through how it was put together, what each part did and how it worked, as well as what could go wrong. He was very good, letting the blind girl feel what he was talking about as he said it and then passing each part round so that the others could also feel it and see it close up. They were joined by quite a crowd in the course of his talk, including a slightly obnoxious young boy who kept coming up with silly suggestions and then insisting at great length that he was right. Again the chap dealt with it very well, eventually saying “That’s a good idea – why don’t you put it down in a letter and send it to me?” and then each time after that cutting him off with “Great! Put that in the letter as well!” so that he could get on with what he wanted to say. Looking at the musket led quite naturally to musket drill, with the blind girl next to L so that she could hold onto her shoulder and feel where to go. I was rather proud of K, who spotted that there would not be enough wooden muskets to get all the way to the end of the row (where the blind girl was) and so volunteered to use a stick instead, so that she could have a proper one :) They practised holding the musket and the match in different hands (a useful skill!) and then stepping forward to fire, and then finished with firing in a battery, with two rows so that the back row could be loading while the front row were firing and vice versa. By now it was chucking it down again, so the Time Travellers hid back in their tent and we took our completed treasure trail back to the desk to claim a prize – a packet of sweets for each child – I’d so much rather they’d had a pencil, but there!

We met up with Paul and Carol again and had a wander round the amazing kitchens while the weather outside did its worst. As it eased up a bit the children went outside to splash in puddles and dance with umbrellas and then, as soon as it was clear enough to walk through, we made our way back to the car park – of course by the time we got there it was brilliant sunshine again! – said goodbye to Carol, Paul, T and grandparents and made our way home just in time to avoid the worst of the traffic.

And so we come to this weekend, and the Plum Festival :) Yesterday we dropped Bob off at an orchard for a talk on growing top fruit without artificial chemicals and went on to talk to some beekeepers. The children all got to try some locally produced honey (so delicious we bought some) and we found out how to make polish from turps and beeswax (we bought some of that too), then J, K and L tried on some beekeeping equipment from different ages: a modern coat with hood and veil, an older hat with veil and a linen robe with woven basket face piece, a style which they think was first used thousands of years ago. We saw how a hive is put together and found out that there is a meeting at a park near us every Sunday which we could go to if we want to see the hives being opened up and inspected, and if we ask there is a good chance that the children could have a go at handling the bees themselves. Since J has been keen for ages to keep bees this might be a good opportunity for him to look into how feasible that really is :)

In the next room we were able to admire some pictures by local artists and to try some different varieties of plums and apples, as well as some apricot yum yum – sort of set fruit jelly. Then we wandered into the graveyard at the back of the church to find out where the boys’ workshop was to be in the afternoon, found a nice bench and had our lunch. Bob arrived in time to take over the children so that I could dash to the orchard for a walk and talk on bees, which was fascinating (must make notes while it’s fresh in my mind, but not now, I fear) while the boys did an Opal workshop on lichen and moss and Bob and the girls explored a little more, including trying some delicious icecream. We bought lots of fruit (plums and apples) then came home for a quick tea and early night for the children and some plum and rosewater compote making for me.

Today the plum festival continued, although we set off later than planned because the boys felt the urge to go out and look for samples of mosses and lichen to examine first. We still managed to fit in a trip to a plum specialist to find out about the plums in the field behind our house (cherry plums, edible but not necessarily very exciting, probably there before the field was turned into a playing field, as they used to be planted as a screening hedge round orchards), a quick peek in passing at the self-sufficiency lady with her ducks and chickens (she was too busy to be worth waiting for, we decided), a play in a rather nice old-fashioned playground, ice cream for the boys (who missed out yesterday), trying and then buying some freshly pressed apple juice and chatting to a lady about her farm and the various farmers’ markets in the area. Then we moved on to screenprinting some bags, which was excellent fun, starting with designing an inner section to fit inside an already made-up outer section, then putting the design together, adding the ink (with help from the artist in charge of the activity) and pressing it through the screen to make the print. It was so cool that I had to do one too!

We left the bags to dry while we went on to our last stop of the day, an orchard where they were offering sensory tours for the children. We began with a biodiversity game, each being given a card with a plant, insect or animal on it, then using wool to make links between us. Then we walked on and looked at the textures of the trees, bark, trunks, branches, leaves etc and did some rubbings to see how they varied. We sat and listened for a few minutes and drew a sound map of what we could hear and where it was in relation to us. Then we did some tasting of different types of plums, culminating in a blindfolded tasting to see if we could identify which ones they were of the ones we had tried. By the end we knew which ones we wanted to buy ;)

The orchard tour ended just in time for story telling (it had to, as it was the same person doing both!) and we sat on blankets and listened to some stories we already knew (Each, peach, pear, plum, for example) and a few we didn’t (including the Frangipani Fairies, which I need to look out for, I think) while Bob nipped back to collect the bags, which were by now just about dry. (We still need to iron them to set the colours.) The children still wanted to do some picking, so we collected a punnet and set off round the orchard in search of apples ripe enough to be worth picking (to please L, who doesn’t like plums) and all the kinds of plums we had most liked on the tour. Despite worrying about how full our punnet was it didn’t come to much really :) I will have some work to do tomorrow to preserve all the ones we won’t manage to eat fresh though!

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July 25th, 2010 by katy

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